What Makes It a Great (or one of THE Best) BBBJ's?

Just finished up getting a BBBJCiM with a Dallas-area Provider that has a good reputation (reviews) in that area. I'll likley not write a review b/c, while finding it a very pleasurable experience to cum in a woman's mouth, the "job" itself was good...not great. I think this is a personal observation as many reviewers rave of her skills. Since I just received my very 1st AARP card (shot to the heart!) it also gives me decades of experience at getting women's mouths wrapped around my dick. Perhaps it's like how the US Supreme Counrt defines pronography; namely you know it when you see it.

What makes for a great (or THE Best) BBBJ? I don't need to go off in her mouth if she's sensually doing something else with my load as it erupts. I prefer the "job" take a while..a long time...b/c I want to make it last a long time and play with her too. I love having a woman put me in her mouth and bring me to the edge and then stop...perhaps walking away to get some water or snacks before coming back to bed and letting me go down on her and returning the teasing oral. Perhaps we're talking when she slides back down, takes my cock back in her mouth at some point and gets me hard and to the brink again. Over and over...that's part of what for me makes it a great BJ and moves it towards one of THE best! Do you have to experience deepthroat to make it the best? Givers & Receivers...I'm curious what you thiunk and if your perspective differs from mine. Thank you.

Probably different for every guy in some way or another. However, being adaptive, taking direction, multiple techniques/approaches, all while taking subtle cues as to how each of those is working on him makes for a great one.

I am going to use a new acronym I learned. WALDT. It seems as if a lot of hobbyist like the porn style type bj (dt, lots of spit, the poor girl almost impaling herself with the guys cock, cim.....etc). Although visually stimulating, that doesn't work for me. I had one of the best bbbj's today without all of that. The young lady took her time, no DT or teeth and was very gentle and loving with the cock. I thought I really liked the pornstar style prior to today but I was proven wrong, I like the latter of the two. I will see if a certain provider can make me change my tune pretty soon though. But truly WALDT.

I do not care for just BBBJ's...........I like providers who are into and great at cock worshiping. Lots of tongue, saliva, suction and spends a lot of detailed time on BLS. Eye contact, slurping noises and of course DT and gagging will give a provider great oral skills points with me as well.

I do not care for just BBBJ's...........I like providers who are into and great at cock worshiping. Lots of tongue, saliva, suction and spends a lot of detailed time on BLS. Eye contact, slurping noises and of course DT and gagging will give a provider great oral skills points with me as well. Originally Posted by davidfree986

I agree that the entire experience and worship is important.

Sometimes a focused switch up to just good ol' fashioned cock-sucking can be good too.

Dang if I can help you. I know a good one when I can't control myself and explode. How can't tell you. I thank profusely.

But on second visit I leave that activity till last if prior doesn't get it done. I enjoy pleasing my Provider before poopin out.

txcwby, for me, it's taking her time, teasing, slurping, holding it in her mouth so i can feel the warmth in there, nibbling, licking the shaft and balls, letting me pump it in and out, having her suck it in and out.

most importantly - staying with it until the end.
not switching to manual finish.
not taking it out and let it finish on its own.
not going "eeewwwwww!" when lil delites spurts.

staying with it until he climaxes and spurts.
in her mouth, on her lips, wherever she wants it.
but staying with it until the end!!!

she can continue to suck/lick/slurp him - unless i shove her away due to increased sensitivity.

but staying with it until the end!!!
that's when i know it's great, scratch that - DELITEFUL!!!

txcwby, for me, it's taking her time, teasing, slurping, holding it in her mouth so i can feel the warmth in there, nibbling, licking the shaft and balls, letting me pump it in and out, having her suck it in and out.

most importantly - staying with it until the end.
not switching to manual finish.
not taking it out and let it finish on its own.
not going "eeewwwwww!" when lil delites spurts.

staying with it until he climaxes and spurts.
in her mouth, on her lips, wherever she wants it.
but staying with it until the end!!!

she can continue to suck/lick/slurp him - unless i shove her away due to increased sensitivity.

but staying with it until the end!!!
that's when i know it's great, scratch that - DELITEFUL!!!
Originally Posted by pmdelites

Your experience may be unlike that of many others, dear... You are an exceptional challenge.

Your experience may be unlike that of many others, dear... You are an exceptional challenge. Originally Posted by Caitie Mae

Long time no see baby! You gorgeous thing.

Worship. Worship. Worship. It's like an art and first and foremost to have fun with it and not treat it like a chore. I'm super sensual and that works just perfect for the men that I like to see.
Xx

Worship. Worship. Worship. It's like an art and first and foremost to have fun with it and not treat it like a chore. I'm super sensual and that works just perfect for the men that I like to see.
Xx Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

Key word is THAT YOU LIKE TO SEE
God bless those men LOL!!!!!

It's what the girl does while you're cumming during a BBBJCIM that separates the Pros from the So-Sos. Make it last forever, ladies...

I'm a big proponent of the adage "Hard work pays off over time, but laziness pays off now" so I will just copy and paste my previous comment from the national thread.

To me, there are three things that make the difference between a good bj and an earth moving experience.
1. First and foremost, she has to actually enjoy doing it. A lot of girls will say they do, but when you find one that really does, you will know it.
2. Though I do not have first hand experience, it is said that gay men give the best head. Why? Because they know exactly how the male body works. Therefore, a lady with extensive practical experience is best equipped to do all the right things.
3. Lastly, and this is just my personal opinion, she has to know how to close the deal. She needs to swallow. In my experience, too often, a girl who does not swallow will stop moving at the wrong moment in an attempt not to, turning the whole thing into a frustrating excercise.

Long time no see baby! You gorgeous thing. Originally Posted by Luke Skywalker

Thank you, young jedi.

I apologize that I neglected the original question: what makes it the best?

I. Love. It. I love it so much you could even say that I have an oral fixation...

My two cents: The best thing about a BBBJ from a provider is if she makes you think she wants to do what she is doing. I remember a number of lines from the great Dice Clay about women "dabbling" in it. I love going down on girls, because I want them to enjoy what I am doing. My so is very rarely into it without a considerable amount of champagne, and perhaps with a hot tub or bath mixed in. It is a real shame, she could run the show if she would just get a little more into it with some regularity, thus my life here. A few years ago I had a little thing on the side that would not let me finish unless I finished in her mouth. She gave a great BBBJ at various times during our time together, but I really got the feeling that she wanted to please me by having me finish in her mouth. The various BBBJs that I have gotten from ECCIE girls as well as at the AMPS are separated by one primary element of the act; the girls that made an impression on me made me believe (even if for a moment or two) that they were genuinely into doing it right and making me feel good, not just getting it over with and moving on to something else. I mean to be inside a ladies mouth to begin with is treat enough, to feel like she wants you in there makes all the difference in the world!