I know this is the Political Forum, but this is not really a political question. Please lets keep it that way.
What is proper, respectful or acceptable today? As a short-fat-white-boy myself, I have no idea anymore. President Obama had one white parent and one who was an African, (please lets not go off into the weeds on his right to be president). Senator Harris has one parent who is from India, and one who is from Jamaica. In other forums on this board, these types of parental heritage are often referred to as "mixed" or blended . But today, in mainstream news outlets, both Harris and Obama are called "Black" or "African-American".
this is a deeply, seriously meant question. I came of age in the sixties. At age eight or ten I came home from a friend's house having just learned "Eeny-Meeny-Miney-Moe . . .and all the rest of it. I was firmly corrected by my parents who instructed me to say "Negro". or "Colored".
in small town Michigan during that time (call it 1958-'62) I had never seen a person of color let alone a "Negro". As I aged into awareness in the next few years, we all learned to say "Black" in stead of negro and then somewhat later on the acceptable phrase became "Afro-American". I don't recall hearing the term "Person Of Color" till decades later, but the term "colored" was as out as "Negro". So now it is some sixty years later on and these things seem to really make a difference in important ways . . .more so than ever before.
I belong to a mainstream church (Anglican or Episcopal) with a significantly diverse congregation ranging from people of European descent to Hispanics and folks from India. There are a significant number of "black" parishioners as well.
In the recent past, we brought in a new priest; a black woman. She was not a good fit as the HR people in the private sector might say. She was a social issues activist (why we brought her in), but misunderstood that the "black" parishioners she saw seated in the pews did not consider themselves to be "African-Americans". The bulk of them are immigrants from Jamaica or Nigeria. Without going into it all here . . .it didnot work out well for the new priest. She is now at an inner city church in Baltimore.
So then: What is what? Is Senator Harris an African-American? Is president Obama? What about the Nigerians in the congregation, or my former co-worker who is a non-Arab Christian from Egypt.?