Establishing history in ECCIE

I have a provider that I'm dying to meet but when I contacted her she felt I didn't have enough history for her to meet. Any tips out there for "building a history" without breaking the bank? I'm in an area that doesn't have much for providers and only travel to her area (limited providers, many I'm not interested in either) on occasion. I'm also trying to limit my activities in the area I live.

Thoughts?

~ JA

Use the Search tab or download porn, your choice.

There are plenty of ladies that will see men that are newbies. More than likely you will have to go through a bit more screening. Good luck to you.

find newbie friendly providers on here or travel a bit to see them.

from there you can build references.. post up reviews so they remember you too, that helps

Misteranderson, good that you're asking the question here. Many gents never figure it out. What she is telling you is that no one knows you. Membership on the board isn't nearly enough. When you start accumulating posts, and either reviews or references, you'll begin to understand that she's looking more for 'citizens in the community' than she is 'members of the board.'

Start interacting here. Respond to posts. Have fun. Laugh at yourself. Don't use the board for simply getting information or providing reviews. It's more than that. You'll see what I mean.

All the best.

can you ask if she has any other methods of screening besides using eccie?

if eccie is all that you plan to use, you can always post an iso asking for people who are newbie and reference friendly to please contact you.
xoxo

As someone who is new here, I appreciate the perspective from those who have a lengthy tenure in the community. It certainly takes time to build a presence and participate - patience is paramount. That's my approach, at any rate.

Providers that decline new (unvetted) clients are simply exercising their prerogative. We all need to start somewhere, and that may take a little while.

Misteranderson, good that you're asking the question here. Many gents never figure it out. What she is telling you is that no one knows you. Membership on the board isn't nearly enough. When you start accumulating posts, and either reviews or references, you'll begin to understand that she's looking more for 'citizens in the community' than she is 'members of the board.'

Start interacting here. Respond to posts. Have fun. Laugh at yourself. Don't use the board for simply getting information or providing reviews. It's more than that. You'll see what I mean.

All the best. Originally Posted by Contralto

Great Information

I was looking for the same things, thanks guys

I have a provider that I'm dying to meet but when I contacted her she felt I didn't have enough history for her to meet. Any tips out there for "building a history" without breaking the bank? I'm in an area that doesn't have much for providers and only travel to her area (limited providers, many I'm not interested in either) on occasion. I'm also trying to limit my activities in the area I live.

Thoughts?

~ JA Originally Posted by misteranderson

You need to find escorts newbie friendly.Escort would see you cause you didn't have enough history move on.