I know they are everwhere! But is there a site besides p411 that allows providers to verify the men? Get references? I love to chat still, and love the friends i have made. But honestly i am here to feel safe. Then how does a man trust me? Can they somehow read the RSOs? Originally Posted by SweetSuzannaMe too. I am a very seldom hobbyist, and need discretion. This was one of the few sites I felt like I could find someone I connected with and safe to visit.