It would behoove one to be exceedingly careful in propositioning apparent civilians in an apparently non-sexually oriented business, for propositioning the wrong lady might at best have you banned from the premises, and at worst could get you unwanted attention from the local constabulary (probably unlikely, but the mere offer under most state statutes would complete the offense of patronizing prostitution).While the idea does sound quite intriguing, our legal expert Bluff City Guy is correct. Too much downside risk and not enough upside. I can't go down that path. However, for those that like to live on the edge, as long as you mention it once in the establishment and then dont harass them after that, you likely will get a slap on the wrist at most.
Cheers,
bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy
While the idea does sound quite intriguing, our legal expert Bluff City Guy is correct. Too much downside risk and not enough upside. I can't go down that path. However, for those that like to live on the edge, as long as you mention it once in the establishment and then dont harass them after that, you likely will get a slap on the wrist at most. Originally Posted by FOP GuyConfounding the issue is that if the waitstaff is dressing provocatively, well... what you're interpreting as openness to a P2P proposition is really most likely a tip-maximizing strategy on the part of the waitress (I'm deliberately using that word because, let's face it, this only works for women waitrons). There's a significant body of social science research which, translated into plain English, concludes that waitresses maximize tip income by flirting and showing a little cleavage or ass cheek (the Hooters principle, in a nutshell). Guys pay for the eye candy and flirting (and are probably hoping that a show of generosity might provoke a proposition from the waitress). But because you're a stupid male (no offense meant, we all are where women are concerned) you're thinking with the little head and concluding she's advertising her availability.
Well a little flirty word play never hurt anyone. An example: (pretty much naked barista) " for the espresso that'll be 3.75. (Horny patron) "well that's not too bad what does 400 get me? Hahaha" I'm sure for the right price some of those girls would be open but if I try and succeed I will keep it to myself and the rest will be left to wonder what if. Originally Posted by B.WayneOh if you do please, do tell. Inquiring minds want to know
I don't know what establishment you're talking about, so maybe it wouldn't be out of place there, but most waitstaff I know get creeped on enough already. Please don't harass them.
Isn't that why sites like this one exist? Originally Posted by Warden639
Well a little flirty word play never hurt anyone. An example: (pretty much naked barista) " for the espresso that'll be 3.75. (Horny patron) "well that's not too bad what does 400 get me? Hahaha" I'm sure for the right price some of those girls would be open but if I try and succeed I will keep it to myself and the rest will be left to wonder what if. Originally Posted by B.WayneFlirty word play in such establishments is, 999,999 times out of 1,000,000, the girl's strategy to get a bigger tip out of you. As I wrote earlier, there's plenty of evidence that it works.
oh afraid ill out bid you huh? challenge accepted. Originally Posted by B.WayneI've no doubt you could, since I'm certainly not wealthy and I just spent my hobby budget for a while yesterday--on someone I know is open to it and has practice at giving men an excellent time, not some poor civilian waitress who probably already has to put up with a lot of unwanted shit from customers, sexual harassment or otherwise, for her tips.
I've no doubt you could, since I'm certainly not wealthy and I just spent my hobby budget for a while yesterday--on someone I know is open to it and has practice at giving men an excellent time, not some poor civilian waitress who probably already has to put up with a lot of unwanted shit from customers, sexual harassment or otherwise, for her tips.That’s understandable warden if it has hit someone close to home I really don’t want to mess with anyone where the feelings aren’t mutual so I think I’ll keep my hobby options in a safe place here on the board .
(It's a sore subject for personal reasons I'm not getting into here, not necessarily about you, if I seem unwarrantedly irritable) Originally Posted by Warden639
That’s understandable warden if it has hit someone close to home I really don’t want to mess with anyone where the feelings aren’t mutual so I think I’ll keep my hobby options in a safe place here on the board ��.may i suggest some wine, women and song to lift that depression?
On a separate note I’ll have you know that you ruined my Valentine’s Day yesterday lol! I was depressed all night after reading your post on of the other threads. I asked myself why in the hell didn’t I think of that for my V Day present to myself? She is an awesome lady! Originally Posted by austin88998833