Newbie Massage Question

Hi everyone. I've been watching the boards for a while but have yet to post or visit a provider yet. Believe it or not, I'm very nervous and paranoid. Still a little paranoid to be honest (I have a lot to lose - as I'm sure all of us do).

Anyway, I have gotten the nerve to finally visit a massage therapist. From the reviews, I've kinda narrowed down to Dharma, Tara, and Jules. To be honest, primarily because they all seem to have a fun loving, easy going attitude. Plus, they are newbie friendly. Well, except it looks as if Jules is no longer newbie friendly.

There are tons of others I would love to see once I'm ready to go past massage (shout out to Cameron and Itialian Princess to name a few). But now I'm off topic on my own thread. Wow. Sorry!

So here is my question, before I take the plunge, I really wanted to see if there were some massage parlors that looked legit but offered additional services. Somewhere that my wife wouldn't suspect if I went on a regular basis. My wish would've been somewhere like elite massage.

I know from the boards that this is not something we normally talk about publicly. So please feel free to pm me.

Thanks!

The best place to go that your wife would not suspect is right on the corner of shut the fuck up and dont say anything. Seriously dude if your wife wants to bad enough all it takes is a google of the place and she will be able to tell what is going on in any massage place. Make the time to go see Dharma she is super cool and a great lady and if you have trouble being all ninja like and keeping this off the wife radar then dont do it.

If I were to try that, I would go to a lagit massage business and afterwards, high tail it to one of the ladies you mentioned for additional relaxation.

HD - great suggestion. Thx!

Tailgunnr - I don't know whether to laugh at the pure honesty of your reply or be mad at it. But truth be told, I actually expected a harsher response from somebody. But with that being said, I appreciate your honesty.

I am working on coming out of my shell..LOL..it is all good- my intent was to just say that if you have to duck and dodge the wife radar it is not worth it- Ladies like Dharma, or Vnurse that have been around can help make your initial venture into this a good one. Dont try and do it where you are puttng up a front that will always end up getting caught and caught is bad! You have to do this Ninja style all on the sly! now of course there are many that are open about the hobby and some who even have SO's that know that they do it. Find the level that works best for you and be safe. You wont be able to go and just get a message with extras it will grow and you will find yourself between some ladies legs with your mouth on her snatch asking yourself how you got there! There are too many wonderful hot chicks around here and it will happen!

But truth be told, I actually expected a harsher response from somebody. Originally Posted by Gideon

Ask and ye shall receive ........ Get a porn and some lube.

Gideon, for what it's worth, I have seen hobbyists who have not only TOLD their wives, they have bought their wives gift certificates for massages. I mean, if you get massages and you can tell your wife...all the better, right? I even have one client whose wife has BOUGHT him massages with me as gifts! Of course, she didn't know quite how relaxed he was when he left! LOL!

If you feel guilty, you will usually act suspicious and if you act suspicious, you will draw questions. If she asks what you are up to and you can say "I'm getting massages, would you like to go as well?"

Something to think about...