Handling the uncertainty of whether you can honor her offer of MSOG

I've only had one woman ever offer MSOG. This was a few years ago, before she pulled up stakes and headed east to greater fame and fortune. She tried valiantly to coax a second pop out of me a couple of the times I saw her, but we hadn't allowed enough recharge time, so that bucket list item remains unchecked.

I've never been one to rush into a session, and I know that part of the problem is spending some time upon my arrival either getting to know her or catching up. Knocking on her door with Little Lance already out, ready to go, has never been my style, but I could adapt. And I suppose I could, if she made me, be done with Round One in five minutes or so.

But there's the problem: What if, when time for Round Two comes, Little Lance is still staring at the floor and refuses to make eye contact? Or if she or I or both of us work really hard for the final 15 minutes and he refuses to blast off? I feel bad enough when a woman is working really hard to end Round One; I'd feel a little worse if she worked hard and didn't accomplish anything more than making me raw. It also seems like allowing for maximum recharge time means you're rushed on the front end and on the back end.

I'm intrigued at the possibility of being able to go again, provided I can find a willing companion, but I'd feel like I cheated myself if I paid for an hour and was able to experience only five minutes of quality time. With some women, killing that remaining 55 minutes with conversation and cuddling wouldn't be a poblem for me, but with others ....

So, guys and gals, what's the best way to address this uncertainty? Or, more precisely, how do you address it? Should I just resign myself to having a fulfilling OSOG encounter, or do you try to knock one out early and then hope and pray that at the 55-minute mark, your little friend will be interested again?

Haha.. I'm a single shooter, but I've never had a "problem".. I think there's been a couple of instances where my lady was trying to get round 2, but that's 120 reviews we're talking about.. I simply said "it aint happening", and that was it.. nothing to wring my hands about.

I like Msog as my first pop is soon and I know quite a few providers who offer msog...

I tend to ask if someone is msog early on in a date. I don't want to pop someone too quick if he is a one and done. If someone knows they are a one and done, I try to drag out the finale. Lots of edging and changing things up.

If they say they are msog, I try to give them 10min or so to recover that way we aren't rushing. But I'll admit, it is a tad disappointing when they say they are msog and don't deliver.

Great topic Lance !! And very well put across !!! I loved the way you described this !!

I usually pop off fairly quickly. I separated with my SO yesterday, but before that I could only ever do 30 minute sessions with providers to limit time that could arouse suspicion.

Even the times I could stay the hour I didn't and then on the drive home Artos Jr. would want more. I'm looking forward to taking up providers on MSOG moving forward, because as long as I don't masturbate early in the day I'll probably be able to get 2-3 pops off.

KAREZZA-- hit google search and you will get some top (pun intended)

It is not edging, it is about comfort, and those who have mastered the techniques can enjoy waves and plateaus of warm pleasure (both ladies and gents) and sometimes extended mini-orgasms, too.

Karezza is not about counting the pops, but the duration(s).

Thing is, usually not hobby compatible due to the stress of daily life and short sessions.

Best accomplished over a two to three hour time frame, with food, drink, etc.

Kama Sutra techniques involve all of the senses and not just the "positions." And lovers who are very familiar with their partners.

Doesn't often happen in the hobby these days imo.

It is also known as the Tao of Sex.

I'm usually good for one per hour, not so much a recharge issue, I just really enjoy a good extended play time - I'm not into quickies. If I know I want MSOG, I book a multi-hour visit.

I approach sessions the same way you do, for much the same reasons. On those occasions where I've tried for the second bell, I just went with the flow and if I wasn't successful, I at least enjoyed the journey. In fact, when I drank more there were some days I didn't even get bell one.

Never did the lady act like it was a big deal, mainly because I didn't. It doesn't define you, or the session, if you don't let it.

I play it by mood and my schedule at the time. I only go for MSOG with providers I have seen previously and I know I connect with well enough to want the recovery cuddle and play time. Then I schedule 90minute or 2 hour sessions and find it well worth the time. Recovery time is usually cuddle, bbbj, daty, dato that gets little boy going again. I find it worth the time and dollars because round 2 is so intense for me. Seems to come from deep within and total body release. And for what ever reason, I find it better accomplished with the Milfs and my grocery store soccer moms. I try to make it at least O number 2-4 for them. Just Saying WOWWWWWWW

I tend to ask if someone is msog early on in a date. I don't want to pop someone too quick if he is a one and done. If someone knows they are a one and done, I try to drag out the finale. Lots of edging and changing things up.

If they say they are msog, I try to give them 10min or so to recover that way we aren't rushing. But I'll admit, it is a tad disappointing when they say they are msog and don't deliver. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

We will test that theory today dear Laura

A few ideas/suggestions:

1. This one is out of my control, but it is probably the most important factor. Her enthusiasm. If she is not into, lil Zont seems to figure that out and Round 2 success is less likely to happen.

2. Her BBBJ talent. Since we are not talking BBFS here, of course, that bareness makes a lot of difference at Round 2 time (does not matter much at all on Round 1).

3. I book longer sessions anyway (90 minutes or two hours), but I have trouble imagining Round 2 success in a one hour session. Likely that would have to mean a 100% start to finish sexual effort by both of us. And I prefer a more easy going session.

4. Blue pill or no blue pill? For me (and from what I have read here) blue pill means a much easier hard on for Round 2 but reduced chance of a climax. Of course, when she is all over Lil Zont standing at attention on the Round 2 tour, it feels terrific anyway, even if time runs out and I cannot "complete".
No blue pill means a greater chance of limpness on Round 2, but wow when she overcomes that, it is grrrreat!! Plus, for some strange wild medical reason, it is easier to complete too.

5. I have never run across a lady who will not go for Round 2 in a longer session. I would be shocked if it were "OK, you got off. We can just chat and cuddle until your time is up." I have has a few shorter sessions where it is one and done - the way she does it. (which is one of the many reasons I do not book shorter sessions).

6. Round 3? The great beyond these days. Like sailing to the edge of the earth. lol