First Time Visit

This question is geared more towards the gals, but I guess some gents may relate to as well. Did you have an idea in your mind of what the other person would look like based on the way his/her voice sounds like on the phone, assumed age, or maybe board personality etc? And then was totally off the mark on first sight? I know us guys can get sonewhat of an idea about gal for the obvious reason of posted pics, reviews with stats, etc. But maybe some guys have a certain picture in their mind of what the gal's face may look like and were totally wrong. I'll have to say that I've been pleasantly surprised more than once! And was unpleasantly shocked once. I've been told many times that I didn't look like what was expected. Not sure if that's a good or bad thing!! LOL

You didn't look anything like what I expected (way younger looking)....( I hope I wasn't the unpleasantly shocked one that was on your list... lol)
Ive only been "shocked" twice

You know better than that!!

You know better than that!! Originally Posted by badhusband

I'm usually completely wrong. I've had numerous guys who sound "white" to me and they're asian. Not a bad thing, I'm just way off.

yes i do that alot...I am a very visual person and love to use my imagination lol, so i always try to picture what the guy looks like...but im usually way off lol.

Nope, im usually off 50 percent of time. Im always surprised, lol.

You didn't look anything like what I expected (way younger looking)....( I hope I wasn't the unpleasantly shocked one that was on your list... lol)
Ive only been "shocked" twice Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Ditto! I was so "in lust" with you when we met...and every time since ,it gets even HOTTER!!
{you rock sugar!!...if bigamy was legal,I would marry you...lol}


I have been shocked a few times...but only a few times were dissappointing!
Most times I am just loving it all!!

I recently met a guy (hobbyist) that I had chatted with on line for a few months.....we elected to not disclose his age or race before meeting. In my mind, I thought he would be 6'2" , 40ish, caucasian with reddish blonde hair....but he shows up and is AA, 5'7ish and 30ish....hahaha...we had a HOTT time together....It was worth waiting for, for sure Sometimes suspense is the best aphrodisiac.

I was in chat with a lady on a board and she asked me if I were white. "Only when I speak" I responded. Everyone in the room lol. The surprise is part of the excitement.

Surprised in a good way?

Nope, im usually off 50 percent of time. Im always surprised, lol. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

You gals are awesome!
Since that one time I was shocked, I still have daytime nightmares if I think about it! It almost mentally scard me for life!! LOL


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Originally Posted by Sweet N Little
You didn't look anything like what I expected (way younger looking)....( I hope I wasn't the unpleasantly shocked one that was on your list... lol)
Ive only been "shocked" twice

Ditto! I was so "in lust" with you when we met...and every time since ,it gets even HOTTER!!
{you rock sugar!!...if bigamy was legal,I would marry you...lol}


I have been shocked a few times...but only a few times were dissappointing!
Most times I am just loving it all!! Originally Posted by DallasRain

The voice and conversation has rarely ever matched my visual, but in the end it was all the same...a good time.

That's what it's all about, I hope!

I always come up with a mental picture before hand...and I would say that 95% of the time I am wrong, but I still keep doing it...helps to build up the anticipation and ads to the excitement for me!