What Hobbyist have the "why did I do that" feelings right after?

A good or bad session, cheap or expensive. A habit is a habit right? I mean I admit I love food, so if I eat junk food right after I regret it! Does any ever have the regret right after? If you spend $50 or $500, had a good time or bad time. Do any regret seeing escorts and have the guilt feeling after? I'm just asking, cause like any addiction right after you have regrets right? I'm thankful that men seek out women, thats how I pay my bills so very thankful. Someone mentioned a rehab for hookers, but if you could secretly go to rehab for Johns, would you think you would need to go? And why is it? Is it because its not personal and a personal relationship might be better? Is it because you know without the $$ we wouldn't be there? Do you think its better to hit it and quit it, or to make a arrangement and kinda build a friendship with a woman? Just curious, and again I love doing what I do,a nd am thankful for whatever reason you might have lol.

This isn't a habit...

This isn't a habit... Originally Posted by Wakeuр

It's a disease.

Buyers remorse.

The half life of "guilt, remorse, or reason" is relatively short for most hobbyists. Often, only minutes pass before the quest resumes.

I only feel bad when it turns out to be a waste of time and money. I'm single so the only question I've ever asked myself is why wouldn't I see a provider....

Someone told me he felt that way,a nd I was wondering who else felt that way. I mean I want whoever sees me to go away with memories that still make him hard and not a moral guilt. Who cares if its not personal, thats what makes it more fun IMO. But I guess that was his thing.

Unless the "remorse" is associated with "yuck, why did I just pay to fuck that?", it has nothing to do with the hooktard........and the less she delves into that murky water the better........ijs

I've had the buyer's remorse after sessions a few times. Sometimes it's my fault. We guys think we're horny when we're really not, which may really mean we just have too much free time and feel compelled to fill it. Or maybe I ate too much bullshit and the wood wasn't what it needed to be to make the session great (there's nothing worse than being with a girl that's FINE AS HELL, but the wood is like ehhh!). Or if it takes to long to release, the pressure TO release starts to build, as you can hear the minutes peal off the clock, getting closer to time (thinking, 'Dammit! I shouldn't have rubbed out that one extra time leading up to this session!).

Sometimes it's the girls' fault. If you're well over the weight of your pictures, or even well under sometimes (yes, I've seen girls that have lost TOO much weight), that's a total buzzkill. Some guys have the ability to walk away. Others (like me) not so much. Once inside, if her attitude isn't welcoming or it's off-putting and distant, that's a wood-killer, and definitely leads to a buyer's remorse scenario. Trying to put a condom on a limp dick. Yep, buzzkill. I mean, do you NOT FUCKING KNOW HOW to stroke a cock (say, with a bit of lube) and get some life into it??? THE FUCKING PACKET SAYS YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO PUT IT ON AN ERECT PENIS!!!! How hard is this shit!! No pun intended.

Lack of freshness. Buzzkill. Woodkill. Buyer's remorse, most definitely. Ladies, even if you just fart after taking a shower/bath, freshen up before we get there. That fart air is now lurking near your starfish, and once we get to doggy style action, it might possibly find its way out and onto our nose hairs. Not cool. This doesn't include that burnt condom/high friction smell that comes from using Trojans. I would rather see a woman that's just OK looking, but smells fantastic over a hot chick who smells like she ran 3 miles before the appt. Baby wipes DOES NOT replace soap. Hell, I used to use them. I stopped because I didn't feel fresh after using. I keep soap and a cloth in my car. On the way to a session I'll go into a convenience store bathroom and freshen up rather than go into an incall not having showered if it's been an hour since I last did, or if I'm noticeably not as fresh (self check, if it's borderline I freshen up). And not just the dick, balls, and ass, but armpits, neck and shoulders (from the top, working my way down), anywhere that her mouth may end up on me, I want it to smell like soap's been there (no mouths on my armpit, mind you). I expect the same from the ladies.

Bad locations can create buyer's remorse. If a bunch of thugs and creeps are swirling around, it's not a good look. Even if they aren't associated with you, it gives the impression that at least of them might be a pimp on the premises. Could be yours. Maybe not, or maybe.

Not all sessions are going to be perfectly smooth, but when 'defects' in the process are exaggerated, it can make for a forgettable day.

"yuck, why did I just pay to fuck that Originally Posted by dearhunter

Lack of freshness. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

Unfortunately, I've experienced the above.

Bad locations. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

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I've been to some less than stellar locations but if there are no other defects, it hasn't been a problem except for initial wariness.

Not buyers remorse, more like that "feeling bad in your gut" for seeing a hooker feeling. Something so impersonal kinda feeling. Nevermind, it was just what one guy said to me that made me think of that lol.

Honestly, I don't feel as guilty as I thought I would when I first started. I've had more buyer's remorse from dates than I have from seeing providers. I would probably only feel bad if I found out that the provider wasn't truly "independent." I don't want to see anyone who is being forced or has a pimp.

Also, if I found out she was a guy. That would give me some buyer's remorse.

Only regret I've ever had was wishin I'd jerked off and saved myself the money. I don't hobby when I'm in a committed relationship and I don't believe there's anything immoral about cosa nostra. Never felt guilty, not once.

I haven't ever ran into a guy that ever told me that before but i can say they do say "if i would of known you were this talented then i would of been came seen you" or "i wonder why i taken this long to see you again" lol

Honestly, I don't feel as guilty as I thought I would when I first started. I've had more buyer's remorse from dates than I have from seeing providers. I would probably only feel bad if I found out that the provider wasn't truly "independent." I don't want to see anyone who is being forced or has a pimp.

Also, if I found out she was a guy. That would give me some buyer's remorse. Originally Posted by yardbird74

Now that will be something crazy to find out afterwards lol