There's such a taboo around paying for companionship. If I'm being honest, part of that taboo is what drew me to this world. There's a bit of a turn on in meeting someone in a discrete setting for the first time. Yet, somehow, sometimes, needs aren't quite met. Wants aren't spoken, discussed or satisfied.
So, today, if I may be so bold to ask....
Would you tell me the story of your first time?
When did you first step into the universe of compensated companionship?
Did you feel like you were taking care of someone? Finally indulging in the experience you wanted to have, on your own terms? Did those terms include your partner's pleasure, and seeing her completely lose herself in your arms?
Or was it different than you had expected in some strange way?
I'm curious....
- LorenceVennes
- 02-08-2018, 11:50 AM
- Fizley
- 02-08-2018, 08:41 PM
Good Topic! My first time I had no clue. So glad for the 1st provider as she was an experienced provider who told me about these wonderful websites and showed me the ropes.
I have been hobbying for about 13 years, mostly in CA. The 1st provider I met off of the chat lines, "Livelinks". I was so nervous and didn't have a clue. Her apartment was in the worst part of town. I drove by and was nearly too nervous and nearly bolted because of the neighborhood.
She was sitting out front as I pulled up in a sundress. I drove by and parked in a residential neighborhood nearly 1/4 Miles away, as if she was the cops I was going to make them look for my car. I walked back up, and didn't make eye contact, ear buds in, and walked with a purpose. I wanted to walk all the way around the building as I wanted to look for cops. Checked out the other side and no sign of cars that are typically police vehicle or cargo vans which could hide cops. Walked back where she was sitting, and I see her putting her phone to ear. My cell phone rings right in front of her. Crap now she knows I am here. Still not sure if I want to go threw with it.
She grabs my hand and upstairs we go.
Standing in her living room and she says "cop check". Huh? Now I am starting to leave and she stops me. I say to her "please don't bust me this is my first time." She says, "No grab my boob!" "Its expected to grab my boob, that way I know your not a cop, and it's a sign for me to undress." She entirely took the leed and got me off quickly.
She obviously pegged me a newby. Today she is married and we are great friends. Every time I see her I find an opportunity to ask if I can cop check her. We laugh and talk about how nervous I was.
I have been hobbying for about 13 years, mostly in CA. The 1st provider I met off of the chat lines, "Livelinks". I was so nervous and didn't have a clue. Her apartment was in the worst part of town. I drove by and was nearly too nervous and nearly bolted because of the neighborhood.
She was sitting out front as I pulled up in a sundress. I drove by and parked in a residential neighborhood nearly 1/4 Miles away, as if she was the cops I was going to make them look for my car. I walked back up, and didn't make eye contact, ear buds in, and walked with a purpose. I wanted to walk all the way around the building as I wanted to look for cops. Checked out the other side and no sign of cars that are typically police vehicle or cargo vans which could hide cops. Walked back where she was sitting, and I see her putting her phone to ear. My cell phone rings right in front of her. Crap now she knows I am here. Still not sure if I want to go threw with it.
She grabs my hand and upstairs we go.
Standing in her living room and she says "cop check". Huh? Now I am starting to leave and she stops me. I say to her "please don't bust me this is my first time." She says, "No grab my boob!" "Its expected to grab my boob, that way I know your not a cop, and it's a sign for me to undress." She entirely took the leed and got me off quickly.
She obviously pegged me a newby. Today she is married and we are great friends. Every time I see her I find an opportunity to ask if I can cop check her. We laugh and talk about how nervous I was.
- Warptcuck
- 02-09-2018, 01:08 PM
My first time was with a paid provider. First provider was my first pussy.
I was scared, young, dumb and paid $10 in a Mexican brothel in Boys Town south of Del Rio.
After pop #1, which didn't take long, I hit 2 more before the night was over. Spent $30 for 3 real good looking young Mexican chicks.
First pussy, first BBBJ. The works.
Went back for about 5 more years after that, every winter.
That was in the 70's. All was bareback. Never caught anything. Wasn't scared of catching anything.
I was scared, young, dumb and paid $10 in a Mexican brothel in Boys Town south of Del Rio.
After pop #1, which didn't take long, I hit 2 more before the night was over. Spent $30 for 3 real good looking young Mexican chicks.
First pussy, first BBBJ. The works.
Went back for about 5 more years after that, every winter.
That was in the 70's. All was bareback. Never caught anything. Wasn't scared of catching anything.
- offshoredrilling
- 02-09-2018, 01:40 PM
My first time was with a paid provider. First provider was my first pussy.daddy ? is that you
I was scared, young, dumb and paid $10 in a Mexican brothel in Boys Town south of Del Rio.
After pop #1, which didn't take long, I hit 2 more before the night was over. Spent $30 for 3 real good looking young Mexican chicks.
First pussy, first BBBJ. The works.
Went back for about 5 more years after that, every winter.
That was in the 70's. All was bareback. Never caught anything. Wasn't scared of catching anything. Originally Posted by Warptcuck
- Warptcuck
- 02-09-2018, 06:27 PM
- finman56
- 02-09-2018, 06:42 PM
First few times were Street Walkers in DFW area in early 80's. HoHum experience. Then again in the Midwest with a couple of internet girls in late 2002. Started again in mid 2015.
Now lot of info around.
Now lot of info around.
- Gotyour6
- 02-10-2018, 12:12 PM
About ten years ago on a business trip.
Russian hooker that was a true companion. She was with me for the week and I paid 1500.00 plus shopping etc.
She said I should be a sugar daddy.
All down hill from there.
If I had all the money back that I spent on young girls I would spend it in young girls again
Russian hooker that was a true companion. She was with me for the week and I paid 1500.00 plus shopping etc.
She said I should be a sugar daddy.
All down hill from there.
If I had all the money back that I spent on young girls I would spend it in young girls again