I used to do this when I very first started in the Hobby. I really felt the need to get to know the guy a little bit because I was so nervous. Well I’m not as nervous these days but I really miss the rapport that was formed over dinner. I think it just made the whole experience enjoyable for both of us. I know it’s not everyone’s idea of what this should look like but I think we’re allowed to make up our own rules as we go along.
So I guess I’m just putting it out there to everybody to see if anyone does this or has done it or would do it in the future. I think some people hobby for companionship, good conversation, and then the obvious part of course. I am somebody I guess who really likes to understand where a guy is coming from in order to tailor the session to what’s right for him.
Or part of it is just my loneliness personally as I’ve been single for way too many years now and I love the company of a kind, compassionate, interesting man.