Top 5 Red Flags you look for before Booking a girl? For the Boys 😎

This one’s for the guys✊🏽.

After doing this for awhile there are things I look for before seeing a girl. I think it’s all best to think with ONE head and NOT TWO. And with a lot of women coming out the woodwork to finesse desperate men you need to PROTECT YOURSELF AT ALL COSTS!! What are red Flags I look for ?? SO Glad you asked!

1. Compliance!! I like to have a little conversation it’s very hard to see someone’s personality thru text but seeing how compliant a girl is tells me if I’m gonna enjoy myself or not. Some playful banter maybe asking for a photo when it’s Obvious her pics are fake Or have to deal with headache of some bitchy “Boss Babe”.

2. PHOTOS! Who is taking her photos? Is she taking selfies or is someone holding the phone for her. If so who’s holding it? Her pimp? Her boyfriend? Also! Who is in the pictures? I’ve seen photos with dudes in the background! Which is a red flag cuz if she ONLY does incall you have NO IDEA What your going into. Beaten robbed or even killed!

3. NEGOTIABILITY ! If she has good reviews. Clear photos and nice features I don’t mind paying her price-but with these girls now asking for deposit wen they aren’t reviewed. Barking demands or not having a menu with “variety” then I’ll negotiate a cheaper price.

4. “Femininity” is she soft and playful? Can we have some playful banter? This makes for a smoother session. And also a sign of someone that doesn’t rush! Being calm open and somewhat submissive.

5. MONEYY! Last but certainly not least! Is she asking for money ahead of time? One thing girls LOVE! to do is be a “Damsel in Distress” for example: “my broke down” or “ I need help with getting a hotel room” or my personal favorite! “ I need gas money!” They’ll send those messages out to a few guys whenever they want some money to see what fool can fall for the trap . Now this one is sort of open ended because if you’ve built trust with a girl and u kno who she is what she does and she’s taken care of you in the past or you have an “ Understanding “ then hey go for it! But definitely something you wanna look out for!

Now! Tell me yours!

The first mistake in your list is #3
Negotiating is kinda taboo, girls do not like negotiators.
If they bring it up then ok, but dont go into it as a rule of thumb on each girl you reach out to...or you will hear crickets.

The one thing these girls also despise are serial texters, communicators only to never book.
Happens all the time and frustrates them.

A red flag for me is the "I am only in town tonight girls." Incall only. They try to push a hard sell, to get you to show up. The seedier the motel/hotel, the more things I can imagine going wrong. Maybe even a sting, trying to get their quota, crosses my mind.

Another is the good looking girl, who has a donation, that is really low. First thing I think is the photos are fake. Usually the one thing in life is you get what you pay for. If your paying less, you probably aren't getting the best quality.

Like everything else in life, things are variable. Nothing is set in stone. There are gems out there for those who look. There is always risk in just about everything we do. Those that take chances, often get rewarded. Those that don't, never will.

Wow! I agree with everything.

My thoughts.
Read the ad, and understand what is being said. I there is any variation from what is actually said, dump her and move on.

Example: When you see an ad that is from one woman only; why the hell would one even call the number when there are pictures of several women in the ad. The damn pimp can't even get it straight as to which lady is being listed. Move on.

Example: Really weird tattoos; why would any sane person do that to their bodies. No way do I want to see her.

Example: Run a guy around through the loops when he was trying to make contact. Oh, send another picture, or pay a deposit.

Example: (This is a big one) All the contact is by phone text. Unless you already know the person, you do not know who you are texting. It could be just the pimp trying to handle business. Really, If she only wants to text, just disconnect and block the number.

Example: Changing prices. Make a deal and stick to what the deal is.

Example: She is nothing like her picture.

Example: She answers the door Staff Edit The Dr or has company with her. Run like hell - literally. Maybe one can throw a $20 in the air so she has to pick it up while you are running away.

I love a young girl who is curious and not looking for money. Just sex. Those of course are the best. Within the hobby though you have to be careful. Even if you seen a provider before, things can change at the drop of a hat. Conversation rules the nation. Liars, hate em. Get caught in a lie, conversation is over.

This is probably something everyone here knows, but just in case - NEVER pay with a gift card. In my experience this has always been a scam.

Red flags I look for? Hm. Good thread. Here's mine.

1) Not being nice. She has to be nice. If she isn't nice, I'm not interested. I don't care how she looks. Attitude isn't sexy.
2) Not being relaxed. If she's uptight about anything, she's usually not nice.
3) Not communicating. I've been around a long time. I don't need to chat. But we do need to make arrangements to visit. She has to return calls, texts, and emails. And she has to be nice.
4) Not TCB. No, I'm not paying a deposit. And I'm not discussing it because it's as likely to happen as Nancy Pelosi being nice.
5) Too young. Nothing really against young ladies, but I prefer more mature ladies. Sometimes the younger ones aren't nice.

Good thread.

1. "No AA" or "whites only" I'm not trying to integrate someone's privates

2. No angry all caps posting

3. If they say they do bbfs (yikes)

4. All angles are overhead. Show me what you may look like

5. Advance payments

Red flags I look for? Hm. Good thread. Here's mine.

1) Not being nice. She has to be nice. If she isn't nice, I'm not interested. I don't care how she looks. Attitude isn't sexy.
2) Not being relaxed. If she's uptight about anything, she's usually not nice.
3) Not communicating. I've been around a long time. I don't need to chat. But we do need to make arrangements to visit. She has to return calls, texts, and emails. And she has to be nice.
4) Not TCB. No, I'm not paying a deposit. And I'm not discussing it because it's as likely to happen as Nancy Pelosi being nice.
5) Too young. Nothing really against young ladies, but I prefer more mature ladies. Sometimes the younger ones aren't nice.

Good thread. Originally Posted by FLWriter

Let me Guess, You like them to be Nice ?

Phone number in the ad description doesn't match the contact area number

Let me Guess, You like them to be Nice ? Originally Posted by Cherokeechief

That was the impression I got as well....

Instagram or Twitter account has zero posts.

Instagram or Twitter account has zero posts. Originally Posted by hounddog

Yes! That’s another good one. The high end escorts have social media and I think all girls should just to show that they are real! Nice one

Has/had penis.

Has/had penis. Originally Posted by JohnnyGleet

Yes, the red flags pole. Lol