I know everyone has their own opinion on this one, but lets get it out in the open. When it comes to making initial contact with a lady, do most prefer email or phone? I now from the years of being around this that the majority of hobbiests do NOT like the "forms" on a ladies site, so lets not even figure this in the equation.
I myself prefer email for my contact. With the days of having emails sent right to a cell phone, I dont know why most ladies prefer this method. I look around and still see a number of ladies still have phone as their only method of contact.
So what is your preferred way? I go with email over and over.
Cheers