Saying no, but thank you for the thought...

  • Sami
  • 02-25-2011, 06:44 PM
I haven't been around to much lately due to some personal circumstances which landed my daughter in ER and grandson in the hospital with very low oxygen levels.

I was doing all I could do to take care of them and myself sick but as a parent you put yourself last alot. So I had to remove us from the culprit our home. We had to move to a Extended Stay for now. I had a major fight trying to find legal help 3 weeks of digging & calling finally I found a attorney and the help I been seeking.

Well I am glad to say my babies are finally feeling better. I am as well.
I always thought losing your things to a fire,flood,or a major storm would have to be one of the worst things that could ever happen to a family. Well my belongings are all contaminated so I am at major loss. I feel the loss.

Now I have had several offers from friends and some of my gentleman. Offering me there place, some finding out here recently asking why I did not call them? Well I didn't call because
1) I have learned enough through the years not to mix my friendships with living quarters or money. I value my friendships to much.
2) I respect my guys who visit me .I will not ever bother them with my problems and call them. They didn't sign up for that.

I know some think this is crazy and it's pride, maybe it is. But I will never impose myself or family on anyone. But I am very thankful for the thoughts and just having them to talk to has meant the world to me.

It's gonna be a long road, but I have seen worse days, my family is safe and on the road to good health that's all I can ask for.

So I hope I haven't offended anyone because I said no thank you. I do appreciate the offers.

Thanks Again
Nitwitboy's Avatar
I am sorry Sami. I am ata a loss though; why are your things contaminated?

I hope things get better.
  • Sami
  • 02-25-2011, 08:11 PM
Hey Nit its getting better, my duct system in the apartment was completely mold ridden. When they sent a unlicensed person into clean they made it worse by stirring it loose so when heat come on it attacked us sending us to the hospital numerous times. Mold specialist in Dallas said do not return with baby and if we took our furniture to another place without being properly cleaned it will just carry on in next place. And there is no 100% guarantee they can remove from our belongings.
FishGuy13's Avatar
Ahh, I feel for you Sami, and I have yet to have the pleasure of 'trying' to please you!
  • Sami
  • 02-25-2011, 10:50 PM
Ahh Fish ty I am just grateful my family is recovering. I heard story's of what mold could do. Never in my wildest dreams did I ever imagine it could be so damning.

I know from hear on out if I am renting a place, I will carry a screwdriver in and ladder check the vents before I sign any dam thing. That's a promise!
Guest071315's Avatar
Hang in there chica! I'm there for you!
am glad to hear you babies are feeling a little better =>

best wishes to you and your family

SS
  • Sami
  • 02-26-2011, 12:45 PM
Ryan I am very thankful! I hope you know that. You are a awsome friend!!!!
Sami, hey girl, hey!!! You know I love y'all and my door will always be open, but I can understand your point of view... But I am sooo happy lil man is back to his happy lil self again!
  • Sami
  • 02-26-2011, 08:40 PM
Adrianna, I DO know and much thanks to all you do!!! I couldn't ask for a better person to look after lil man!!!! You are a very special woman In many ways if you haven't been told lately
Awww, that's just too sweet.. Y'all know I love lil man like he was my own!
Hi Sami

I am sorry to hear about your apartment, and what troubles its brought you. I'm glad you and your family is out of that moldy apartment. I hope your attorney is helping you as far as legal matters. Keep your head up.

Many many many hugs
Lisa