Would a pimp keep you from seeing a provider?
Just wondering if you knew a girl had a pimp would you still see her? Even if she had great reviews and seemed happy in her situation? Why or why not?
Probably, becauase I would not want to risk trouble.
Probably not see her, I meant
No, I would not see a girl if I knew she had a pimp. I do not want to give my money to a pimp! There's no need for this type of exploitation nowadays!
Many a pimp would disagree with you monkey. lol
I probably would be turned off if I knew FOR SURE that she had a pimp. Logically, however, I know that I never will know the real situation for most of the women out there. How do you know if the guy you saw hanging around was her pimp or just her driver/security that she hired? What if you never even had a whiff of a pimp, but you'd never know for sure that she doesn't have one. Any of the ladies on here who claim to be independent could be "managed" and we'd never know.
No to pimped girls! No to girls with pimp-like boyfriends/SOs! And no to girls that seem exploited or take advantage of!
I'd steer clear of anyone who had a leach of a boyfriend who didn't have enough swagger to get his own gig.
No to pimped girls! No to girls with pimp-like boyfriends/SOs! And no to girls that seem exploited or take advantage of!
Originally Posted by Redwolf
This +1
If there is a pimp, I am outa there. Why waste the time?
I think pimps and deadbeat boyfriends suck. So do I approve of them, nope. If a provider asked for my opinion, hell yea, I would share with her my thoughts.
But in reality, I have seen a couple of gals regularly, over the years, who had the pimp/bum boyfriend. But my position was, as long as they did not interfere with my time, and the gals were not seeking my advice...well I'm not in the hobby to play moral police. I treated the girls with respect, they did the same in return. And I enjoyed some outstanding "play experiences".
So bottom line, in those cases...it did not become a factor in my continuing to see them.
My concern is do you think it would ever become a security issue for you? Pimps seem like dirt bags who could possibly attack you or come after you if they have your screening info. I am new though and that kind of behavior would seriously hurt their bottom line, I just don't count on them being smart enough to think about that before they act.
shamrock55, ultimately that becomes a personal choice...based upon your experience, the specfics of the girl, your weak points (also your strengths). And your own gut feel of how you would handle the "worse case" situation.
My advise would be...if you feel uncomfortable about it, then there is no pussy worth it.
But to make it a gold standard of rule in the hobby, that pimps/bad boyfriend is a NO GO. I would beg to differ.
Only if she uses pimp bishop magic Don Juan! Other than that no to pimping and all pimps with limps.