NEWBIE FEE

Ember Simmers's Avatar
Yes... I have started charging a newbie fee.
$40 extra ONE TIME FEE for men that have NEVER seen a provider and Don't have a single reference to give me.
They receive the regular rate after that.

I hate to break it to my beloved Kansas City gentlemen, but y'all have always been a year or so behind on hobbying standards and prices etc.
Girls charging newbie fees is Definitely not a new thing. And it's very standard around the country.

Reasons for newbie fee:
- I'M TAKING A HUGE RISK of ending up seeing someone who although is not a cop, could be a crazy dude. And with no girls vouching for them, I never would know.
- Way more involved in screening (aka time)
- thankfully I always am working ... And I ALWAYS provide references, so the Newbie will not be a newbie anymore because of me.
- I run the risk of the newbies hardly ever showing up.. But I'm sure y'all don't want me to start making you pay deposits..... Yeah... Didn't think so.

Ok!!!
Have a great day!
And no negative comments please. THIS IS NOT A DEBATE.
Haha... If y'all can resist.
ElumEno's Avatar
Ember... Girl... You are gorgeous but REALLY.

:Facepalm:

Guess some of us will just have to stay in the dark ages.

Ember Simmers's Avatar
You have nothing to do with this.... You aren't a newbie.
green_betta's Avatar
its your business, you choose how to run it. i see nothing wrong with that.
ElumEno's Avatar
Darn... I kind of was hoping to go back to being a Clueless Newbie... guess I will have to just stay Clueless then.

EDIT... I am not facepalming the newbie thing and I fully agree with green about it being your business... I am facepalming for other reasons.
Ember Simmers's Avatar
Darn... I kind of was hoping to go back to being a Clueless Newbie... guess I will have to just stay Clueless then.

EDIT... I am not facepalming the newbie thing and I fully agree with green about it being your business... I am facepalming for other reasons. Originally Posted by ElumEno
Im sure you aren't clueless!!
And could teach me a few things BCD!! Hehe
ElumEno's Avatar
Im sure you aren't clueless!!
And could teach me a few things BCD!! Hehe Originally Posted by Ember Simmers
Nope... I am pretty clueless... I have found it more amusing that way.
It is always fun learning about new things that you are clueless about.
GiveMeLibertyOrGiveMeHead's Avatar
While I don't consider myself a newbie, some have pointed out that I am a newbie here so I guess it is what it is.

I would have no problem paying your newbie fee and have run into this in the past in San Francisco, Cleveland, Austin and Manhattan. I once paid a $500 administrative fee and had to have another member, (not a provider) vouch for me. That was kind of weird and the process took a while, but the benefits were soooooo worth it and I got to experience some of the most beautiful women I have ever seen.
swarmyone's Avatar
- I'M TAKING A HUGE RISK of ending up seeing someone who although is not a cop, could be a crazy dude. And with no girls vouching for them, I never would know. Originally Posted by Ember Simmers
Soooo...apparently your safety and well being is only worth $40?
JRLawrence's Avatar
Yes... I have started charging a newbie fee.
$40 extra ONE TIME FEE for men that have NEVER seen a provider and Don't have a single reference to give me.
They receive the regular rate after that.

I hate to break it to my beloved Kansas City gentlemen, but y'all have always been a year or so behind on hobbying standards and prices etc.
Girls charging newbie fees is Definitely not a new thing. And it's very standard around the country.

Reasons for newbie fee:
- I'M TAKING A HUGE RISK of ending up seeing someone who although is not a cop, could be a crazy dude. And with no girls vouching for them, I never would know.
- Way more involved in screening (aka time)
- thankfully I always am working ... And I ALWAYS provide references, so the Newbie will not be a newbie anymore because of me.
- I run the risk of the newbies hardly ever showing up.. But I'm sure y'all don't want me to start making you pay deposits..... Yeah... Didn't think so.

Ok!!!
Have a great day!
And no negative comments please. THIS IS NOT A DEBATE.
Haha... If y'all can resist. Originally Posted by Ember Simmers
Nope! This is not a debate. There are some plain old facts that can not be disputed. Ember, Honey you have established yourself as a negative person in your previous posts. You may be beautiful, but dear - you have an attitude.

A good attitude is everything; sorry, but I have not found a good attitude showing from any of your posts. At some time in our lives, all of the experienced guys have walked away from beautiful women with an attitude; they are not worth the time, effort, money spent or emotional degradation to get close to a negative attitude.

A visit with a lady is suppose to be a pleasant event that gives us pleasure. I am very happy that I found this site to check on the ladies that I would like to spend some time with in the future. I do my homework, just like in all other areas of my life.

I like intelligent women, who can add something to my life. Everyone likes sex: but more than half the world population is women. So, you have a lot of competition. I need women in my life, but I can be selective.

Keep it up girl, you will soon need to change your handle or move on to another town to find any business (or to keep from starving) now that we in Kansas City have learned about your attitude.

In a few years your beauty will be gone, and there will be no business at all. Perhaps you can find a job as a waitress, but the work may be too hard for you.

Just because some of us do not give reviews unless requested, doesn't mean we are not experienced.

JR
Sounds almost like the old days when you had to pay when you went into a riverboat to loose your money.
Ember Simmers's Avatar
Nope! This is not a debate. There are some plain old facts that can not be disputed. Ember, Honey you have established yourself as a negative person in your previous posts. You may be beautiful, but dear - you have an attitude.

A good attitude is everything; sorry, but I have not found a good attitude showing from any of your posts. At some time in our lives, all of the experienced guys have walked away from beautiful women with an attitude; they are not worth the time, effort, money spent or emotional degradation to get close to a negative attitude.

A visit with a lady is suppose to be a pleasant event that gives us pleasure. I am very happy that I found this site to check on the ladies that I would like to spend some time with in the future. I do my homework, just like in all other areas of my life.

I like intelligent women, who can add something to my life. Everyone likes sex: but more than half the world population is women. So, you have a lot of competition. I need women in my life, but I can be selective.

Keep it up girl, you will soon need to change your handle or move on to another town to find any business (or to keep from starving) now that we in Kansas City have learned about your attitude.

In a few years your beauty will be gone, and there will be no business at all. Perhaps you can find a job as a waitress, but the work may be too hard for you.

Just because some of us do not give reviews unless requested, doesn't mean we are not experienced.

JR Originally Posted by JRLawrence
I'm not sure where I came off as negative.
Just stating my new rules....
And I never said anyone has to write reviews, guys just have to give me ladies names and number of past providers they have seen.
I understand that some ladies use Eccie to post opinions and stuff. I just use it to advertise and explain new guidelines etc. So, judging my personality off a post about my fees isn't a good judge of who I am.
I think if you took the time to read my reviews, you would see everyone says I'm a nice person.
I've actually never been called negative in my life, so sorry your opinion of me is as so.
Soooo...apparently your safety and well being is only worth $40? Originally Posted by swarmyone
This.
Soooo...apparently your safety and well being is only worth $40? Originally Posted by swarmyone
Of course $40 isn't the value of her safety. But collectively the amount of newbies that Ember will see may make up for her loss of time dealing with people that flake, no show... Etc. When shes expecting someone, she tells others that she is not available, which equals a loss of business all for a newbie that was playing games. She also may have to bail on a newbie or two that she does not feel safe with. Thus, Some of her other newbies will have paid for that hassle as well. I have not talked to Ember personally, but this make total business sense to me.
I have seen some girls charge less for a newbie, go figure that one. First appointment is 150, next one is 200. lol. I'm like I'll see ya once, but not again.