WHY oh WHY

Guest011914-1
02-25-2012, 11:15 AM

please someone explain why some people think everyone is obsessed and jealous of them?really to me that shows me someone who actually thinks very little of themselves and the only way to make them feel better is to put others down repeatly and is there anyway we can help someone go from acting as though they are above everyone to admitting how they really feel about themselves..The first step to help is admitting you have a problem...

jyoshi917
02-25-2012, 11:19 AM

Well that is classic narcissism, they have such low self esteem that their brain automatically compensates, otherwise they wouldn't be able to function "normally". Unfortunately, they are also the people least likely to get help, or to help simply because they do not feel like anything is wrong with them. Some medication and counseling would help, but again, if they dont feel like anything is wrong with them, then there really isnt much you can do. Well, maybe except you feeling frustrated even more and time wasted arguing and stressed.

charlestudor2005
02-25-2012, 11:20 AM

It's just a part of our egocentric human condition. Some humans will never change.

Wakeup
02-25-2012, 12:09 PM

Heh...I bet she responds just to cover her tracks and not be the "one person who it obviously applies to"...

Guest011914-1
02-25-2012, 12:21 PM

you are very correct..but there is nothing anyone can do to help this person...she refuses to admit she has a problem and it is truly sad I feel very truly feel sorry for this person much like others who know people like this...It is a total waste...but until this person comes off the high horse and accepts she is just like everyone else she will just keep pushing people away and be very lonely and pitied by so many.....just breaks my heart to see someone that unhappy......

Well that is classic narcissism, they have such low self esteem that their brain automatically compensates, otherwise they wouldn't be able to function "normally". Unfortunately, they are also the people least likely to get help, or to help simply because they do not feel like anything is wrong with them. Some medication and counseling would help, but again, if they don't feel like anything is wrong with them, then there really isn't much you can do. Well, maybe except you feeling frustrated even more and time wasted arguing and stressed. Originally Posted by jyoshi917

alluringava
02-25-2012, 12:23 PM

please someone explain why some people think everyone is obsessed and jealous of them?really to me that shows me someone who actually thinks very little of themselves and the only way to make them feel better is to put others down repeatly and is there anyway we can help someone go from acting as though they are above everyone to admitting how they really feel about themselves..The first step to help is admitting you have a problem... Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

I know! I especially love it when another provider thinks that of herself...and it's like, no, we're not jealous of you...you just have issues LOL.

Guest011914-1
02-25-2012, 12:34 PM

Ava I am shocked (feigned surprise) you mean there are providers who actually think that way....well I wish they would reply and help us ladies who are just normal people and tell us what makes them so special and envied...but wait that would mean they would have to associate with those who they consider less than they are.....

I know! I especially love it when another provider thinks that of herself...and it's like, no, we're not jealous of you...you just have issues LOL. Originally Posted by alluringava

Guest041413-2
02-25-2012, 12:53 PM

ZarahAdams

You guys crack me up! You are soooo Z-fascinated. Yes, we all know who is being discussed here. (By the way, Ava, you mentioned in another thread that you don't think/know if you are or have ever been someone's ATF. I do have you listed as one, yet to see. It's hard to do, but you've cracked my TOP 3, now there are 4! You are my Fantasy ATF):

texasjohn1965
02-25-2012, 01:07 PM

Are you her fucking lap dog?

You post just like the bitch.

I thought COG was the biggest pussy whipped lacky, but you have taken the lead.

Grow a pair.

JONBALLS
02-25-2012, 01:10 PM

damn, obsession just one upped narcissism

alluringava
02-25-2012, 01:12 PM

I tell the people ( narcissists) " Better watch out before you fall into the pond and drown yourself."

Guest041413-2
02-25-2012, 01:25 PM

Are you her fucking lap dog?

You post just like the bitch.

I thought COG was the biggest pussy whipped lacky, but you have taken the lead.

Grow a pair. Originally Posted by texasjohn1965

damn, obsession just one upped narcissism Originally Posted by JONBALLS

Dudes, she catches so much hell here. Albeit, she is a firestarter at times. But, who am I to talk. I love starting shit. You have no idea. I have been very tamed since my return as P.R.I.E.S.T

I like WakeUp, hell, I respect the hell out of his choice of a wife. We disagree here. That's what makes this world go around.

I love giving HELL. I just am too lazy now to do so. What you guys said here does not dissuade me. Look at the arguments presented. Address the arguments. You have NOT done so. You are jumping on doing the same thing you accuse me of. Answer the fucking question! Damn It!

Is it Positive Contribution or Narcissism???

Guest011914-1
02-25-2012, 01:26 PM

LMAO.....funny how him and her think this thread is about her....just sayin and love your comments are so on target.....

Are you her fucking lap dog?

You post just like the bitch.

I thought COG was the biggest pussy whipped lacky, but you have taken the lead.

Grow a pair. Originally Posted by texasjohn1965

Guest011914-1
02-25-2012, 01:31 PM

ok it is NARCISSISM and you are well not worth my time...but you have way to much time on your hands or maybe one of those that is obessessed. or stalker...j/k..

Dudes, she catches so much hell here. Albeit, she is a firestarter at times. But, who am I to talk. I love starting shit. You have no idea. I have been very tamed since my return as P.R.I.E.S.T

I like WakeUp, hell, I respect the hell out of his choice of a wife. We disagree here. That's what makes this world go around.

I love giving HELL. I just am too lazy now to do so. What you guys said here does not dissuade me. Look at the arguments presented. Address the arguments. You have NOT done so. You are jumping on doing the same thing you accuse me of. Answer the fucking question! Damn It!

Is it Positive Contribution or Narcissism??? Originally Posted by mijo(BFE)

Guest041413-2
02-25-2012, 01:33 PM

LMAO.....funny how him and her think this thread is about her....just sayin and love your comments are so on target..... Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

You are soooo ASSuming...nope, it was me. Stevie Wonder could see who this is about. If we cannot argue on this board publicly then what's the benefit.

These guys jump to ASSumption, yet don't answer the Q, your's nor mine!

Z hasn't commented. How do you ASSume she thinks this thread is about her. Did she send you a PM or something? Do tell!!!

Amazing how out of all of the fems on this board, someone (hater) starts in on her. I'm not defending her. Trust me. She can handle herself. I just don't like to see this (talk about BITCH) bitch maneuver where you throw something out there and everyone talks covertly about (her). THAT is BITCH, not my intelligent retort.