Sugar Baby?

Is that what this section is for? Someone enlighten me please. Originally Posted by Cherri Plum

Cherri, no, that is not the intent of this forum--at least it never had been. Since the reawakening, it does seem to be what the majority of the posts are about.

It was intended to be about the finer things in life, which means some overlap with some SB/SD arrangements, but that was only supposed to be a secondary connection.

Sadly, many of the common denizens of the original intent are gone. Maybe some will come back, I don't know.

But since the topic is currently SB/SD focused, be careful who you listen to or believe here. There are some here who have a very self-defined set of beliefs, and who feel no women who play here could ever be a SB (while they and other guys here are perfectly fine as SDs).

The reality is an escort and a SB are indeed different arrangements. Most escorts do not really want a SB relationship, just like most men on here who claim to be awesome SDs are really just looking for a cheap escort-like arrangement.

Read up, understand what YOU want, and find a guy who is a good match for you. And mostly ignore the blowhards on here (of whom Got6 is but one variety).

Lol,
You are older than I am
@ 55 I would hope you are not looking for a sugar daddy. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

LoL that's almost funny how you stick your nose in everyone's business. Trick...

Thank you to those that have answered my question.
I don’t care what anyone thinks is “optimal” for me. I’ve been in one successful arrangement and wasn’t looking for another one to come from this site. That’s like picking up a chicken nugget and praying it turns into gold. My question was about the purpose of this section.
Good Day!

Thank you to those that have answered my question.
I don’t care what anyone thinks is “optimal” for me. I’ve been in one successful arrangement and wasn’t looking for another one to come from this site. That’s like picking up a chicken nugget and praying it turns into gold. My question was about the purpose of this section.
Good Day! Originally Posted by Cherri Plum

B3's comment was uncalled for. She does not know you. You asked a legit question.

B3's comment was uncalled for. She does not know you. You asked a legit question. Originally Posted by Alyssa71

thank you!

thank you! Originally Posted by Cherri Plum

I did not mean it as an insult, but with a newborn, you aren;t going to want to spend the amount of time or effort it takes. I meant you can have much more with a couple of good clients not someone who wants too much for too little. I was giving you credit for wanting to put your child first because you mentioned that before and I think that's wonderful. My apologies.

I did not mean it as an insult, but with a newborn, you aren;t going to want to spend the amount of time or effort it takes. I meant you can have much more with a couple of good clients not someone who wants too much for too little. I was giving you credit for wanting to put your child first because you mentioned that before and I think that's wonderful. My apologies. Originally Posted by B Three

Thank you for the explanation!
I wasn’t insulted, it was just your opinion which you’re entitled to. But you’re right, as of now, my daughter is my number one priority.

Hooker: I want to be a sugar baby

Sugar daddy: OK, I am going to Japan for two weeks, want to come along?
Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Hooker: I will lose 2 weeks pay of being a hooker so I will charge you 5000 per week so for 10,000 I will go. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

GotYour6 is ignoring the 10%... of us here who have been Sugarbabbies for extended periods of time, do your research a tried and true methodology of this is extended gaps of time in a ladies "Review History" (falling off board). The point I believe he's not so gracefully attempting to make is that you state you are desiring a Sugardaddy, WHAT ARE YOU BRINGING TO THE TABLE and what if any "Skin In The Game" do you provide? I'll be it that G.Y.6. mannerisms are at best unrefined however I do appreciate a Pitbull guarding the gates to Diamond And Tuxedos.

Originally Posted by Old-T

It was intended to be about the finer things in life, which means some overlap with some SB/SD arrangements, but that was only supposed to be a secondary connection.

Sadly, many of the common denizens of the original intent are gone. Maybe some will come back, I don't know.

But since the topic is currently SB/SD focused, be careful who you listen to or believe here. There are some here who have a very self-defined set of beliefs, and who feel no women who play here could ever be a SB (while they and other guys here are perfectly fine as SDs).

The reality is an escort and a SB are indeed different arrangements. Most escorts do not really want a SB relationship, just like most men on here who claim to be awesome SDs are really just looking for a cheap escort-like arrangement. Originally Posted by Old-T

Old-T is ignoring the 90%... of Providers on here who are simply deluding themselves that they ever should or could be Sugarbabbies, being the consummate gentlemen I already know he will arbitrate percentages. The point I believe he's so gracefully attempting to make is IT IS POSSIBLE and it has been done many times, although at the risk of repeating myself WHAT ARE YOU BRINGING TO THE TABLE. I'll be it that Old-T searches for the best in people and situations I do appreciate a pair of rose tinted glasses in Diamond And Tuxedos.

It is like 2 opposite sides of a very similar coin and Sugar Daddies are amazing and so are top notch clients to love and respect exactly what someone is wanting and offering is the most sincerest beautiful relationship as I think I am ready for at this time. So it is kinda like being a singer and a model and an actress YOU CAN DO IT ALL BE IT ALL AND MAKE ANYONE HAPPY IN ANYWAY YOU CHOOSE... there are a lot of really great guys and girls out there and I choose to not label it but just enjoy all the awesome people I come into contact with. Its all about having fun and making each other feel good. That is what it all comes down to in my book - I love being versatile and never limiting myself. I can make anyone happy if I choose to and so many people have been making me very happy as well. LIFE IS GOOD!

I definitely think that she was inquiring about the
forum & it's purpose ; not if YOU think that she is "optimal
for a SD relationship" . Way to put a girl down Originally Posted by LoveXO.Tara

No, I answered her comment about how hard it would be to find a SD here. And I said right now it would be near impossible for her to find an arrangement that would benefit her (because she has a newborn that she clearly has stated is her number one priority). And SD would take precious time from her child. In the future, because of her sweet nature and cute looks, she could probably find a guy who would treat her and her daughter well.

What’s with all the negativity lately?

Double Post

No, I answered her comment about how hard it would be to find a SD here. And I said right now it would be near impossible for her to find an arrangement that would benefit her (because she has a newborn that she clearly has stated is her number one priority). And SD would take precious time from her child. In the future, because of her sweet nature and cute looks, she could probably find a guy who would treat her and her daughter well. Originally Posted by B Three

Then should Cherri Plum find it absolutely impossible to find a relationship with a significant other (SO, that is, boyfriend, husband, girlfriend) that would benefit her? The SD would seem to offer something between what she'd get from a client (high income per hour with no emotional investment) and a SO (less income but a real relationship and large investment in time).

What’s with all the negativity lately? Originally Posted by B Three

Respectfully, you're being a little negative here. Or maybe not, from memory, I think you believe a successful marriage between a provider and a client is a lot more likely than a successful SD/SB relationship.

Bingo, Tiny. Everyone read it so meanly (except Cheri when I expounded). I want MORE for my little Cheri Plum. I don’t want anyone to have to sacrifice time with the baby she obviously puts first. I don’t want her without a partner on weekends and holidays. Maybe that would work later but not now. I would hope she found either some really good supportive clients or a true partner who would be with her all the time. She just retired seemingly in hope of that and it didn’t work...she posted about it, I’m not telling secrets.

Guys here say hookers don’t make good babies and I agree...mostly because we deserve something different. Independence, equality and power. By definition, a SB should be able to put her SD first. It’s not easy when youre not a young naive girl looking for a mentor and sole support.

I would hope she found either some really good supportive clients or a true partner who would be with her all the time. She just retired seemingly in hope of that and it didn’t work...she posted about it, I’m not telling secrets. Originally Posted by B Three

Apologies for the negativity comment B Three. There's more to the story than the rest of us were aware of.

No apology necessary at all. I’ve been all three and marrying a client was the optimal at the time...so my perspective is obviously skewed.