Why Is It Bad?

I've spoken about sex addiction and struggling with it before, but my question today is...why is it bad? I went searching today for some answers and came across a website that says we need to realize it's bad. That's the first step so I'm having trouble with just that. This probably isn't the best place to ask why sex addiction is bad because I'm sure that most of us enjoy sex and sex addictions that we don't see it as bad. I just want to vent. Now that I'm single and I've gone back into the dating world men (non hobby) just do not understand when I say sex addiction. I need sex more than just once every couple of days. I need it every day. I crave the feeling of being pounded to the point I want to cry. If I go without for a few days I literally feel like I'm going through withdrawals. I think about sex probably more than a man does. I have a love/hate relationship with my sex addiction. I think it would be so much better if I found someone that could keep up with me. I hear men say all the time..oh yes I can fuck all the time but in reality they can only fuck once every two days and then act like I'm weird because of how badly I crave it. I want it in the morning, afternoon, and several times a night. And it's getting worse as time goes by. I want to cry right now because I'm beyond horny. I haven't been able to work for the past 3 weeks because I've been sick. This is beyond just being horny and thinking it's fun. This kind of horny is excruciating. I have pinpointed the time my sex addiction started. It started November of 2011. I'm not sure exactly why it started but I'm trying to figure it out.

And for those that always like to say "well why don't you give it away for free". I would like to respond, "why don't you go and pick up the ugliest girl and fuck her because she's easy and free". You don't..you rather pay for quality. I am looking for quality too. I just want ONE man who can satisfy me. One that can wake me up in the morning kissing my neck and slide his cock in. One that can do a quickie in the afternoon and sex 2-3 times at night. A man that can pound me hard and that knows how to make my toes curl. My craving won't be satisfied if the sex is not great.

At times I can see why it's bad. Because when I go without I feel like losing my mind. But it's also soooo good when my craving are fulfilled.

Sorry for my vent. I really needed to get that off my chest. I'd rather have a mouth on my nipple.....aw crap...there I go again.

I seriously think I need a Sybian and a dildo with a suction cup so I can stick it on my bathtub wall and fuck it doggy style while I'm in the shower. That would so help.

OMG!!! Lol wish I wasn't at work right now!!

Ai ya yai!!!!! Reading that was kinda hot.....

Lmao .. Kat u got issues Lol.. U wanna cry ?? I say grab a toy and fuk the fuk out of urself.
Get in tuned with ur body and do some self exploration and finding new techniques maybe , squirting, gagging, Dom, .. something to do in the mean time since ur addicted and all....

I dont understand this threAD.. other than u have been gone for weeks and now horny but dont wanna give it away for free.. Are you new ?? Im so confused .. Sorry guess im out of the loop with everything on eccie lately.

well have a good friday

xo
secret encounters

I think it's bad "when" it becomes such a major factor in your life that you can't function without it.

Thinking about sex all the time is one thing, but just like any addiction (drug or otherwise) if it starts to effect your quality of life then it's time to seek help. The only person that knows your quality of life is you. So step back for a minute & reflect on what this is doing to you.

If your fine then no worries. If you see problems then decided what you want to do.

I've lost all my toys at the moment and I've done plenty of experimenting. I posted this here because I certainly cannot post this on fb and freak my real world friends out. I figured since this is a sex board that'd I'd be around like minded individuals who would be able to understand me. Why can't I post about sex on a board centered on sex without being called a threAd? I'm confused.

Lmao .. Kat u got issues Lol.. U wanna cry ?? I say grab a toy and fuk the fuk out of urself.
Get in tuned with ur body and do some self exploration and finding new techniques maybe , squirting, gagging, Dom, .. something to do in the mean time since ur addicted and all....

I dont understand this threAD.. other than u have been gone for weeks and now horny but dont wanna give it away for free.. Are you new ?? Im so confused .. Sorry guess im out of the loop with everything on eccie lately.

well have a good friday

xo
secret encounters

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Secrets Originally Posted by Secret Encounters

I think it is becoming a problem. I'm looking into hypnotherapy right now. Hopefully going to try and find the source of my addiction. I looked into the sex addicts anonymous but their 12 step program sounds really weird.

I think it's bad "when" it becomes such a major factor in your life that you can't function without it.

Thinking about sex all the time is one thing, but just like any addiction (drug or otherwise) if it starts to effect your quality of life then it's time to seek help. The only person that knows your quality of life is you. So step back for a minute & reflect on what this is doing to you.

If your fine then no worries. If you see problems then decided what you want to do. Originally Posted by tallgeese

Wow. You have taken the first step in admitting your concern. You are a very beautiful person i am sure and i hope you find the right type of partner. Nothing wrong with enjoying what makes you happy and fulfilled.

Keep searching.

Oh and i hope we meet someday.

If ur looking for a boy toy make sure u seek out of the hobby bc it sounds like ur saying u want some one u know out of this but then at some point ur telling us u want some one to give it to me good to fullfill my sex addiction yet i want them to pay to see if i like them enough to possibly consider. IDK maybe im reading to much into it.

We are all pretty much addicted to sex here since we like a good O a day if not more.
I mean who doesnt love a Banging time!!!


well whatever u do , take care of urself
best of luck

xoxo
Secret encounters

Oh no lol. Not looking for a boy toy in the hobby. Too many issues with that.

If ur looking for a boy toy make sure u seek out of the hobby bc it sounds like ur saying u want some one u know out of this but then at some point ur telling us u want some one to give it to me good to fullfill my sex addiction yet i want them to pay to see if i like them enough to possibly consider. IDK maybe im reading to much into it.

We are all pretty much addicted to sex here since we like a good O a day if not more.
I mean who doesnt love a Banging time!!!


well whatever u do , take care of urself
best of luck

xoxo
Secret encounters Originally Posted by Secret Encounters

Seems like a threAD to me too, but whatever.

As a serious discussion, any actual addiction is bad. We could all joke that we are addicted, but if we really were, for example spending money meant for our kids, or food, or rent, that's an addiction and you can see why that would be bad.

It sounds like you need a professional fuck buddy. A male escort. You never no darling, you may find one that wants to practice his craft. Maybe he could do it pro bono. You can not have a clock watcher! He's going to have to fuck this infliction out of you.

I would meet up with you right now but I Frapped reading your post...call me in 2 days.lol

Remember when I didn't want you to leave? LOL! I could ride you all day!!

It sounds like you need a professional fuck buddy. A male escort. You never no darling, you may find one that wants to practice his craft. Maybe he could do it pro bono. You can not have a clock watcher! He's going to have to fuck this infliction out of you.

Originally Posted by Salsa man

You act like giving it away for free means you are settling for the low lifes and if someone pays you then he must be a gentleman. That logic seems kind of weird. Any decent looking lady should be able to go out and pick up a decent guy for NSA sex any night of the week. You seem to think that it is only worth while if you get paid. Nothing wrong with you getting paid for sex but don't act like you can't get laid any other way. Hell, call up someone you have seen from eccie and enjoyed his fucking capabilities and offer him a freebie. Problem solved.