A few newbie questions

Hello everyone. New guy here in LR. I've been in and out of the hobby over the years but so much has changed both my personal life and the way things are done. So I finally took the plunge and signed up but I have a couple questions that were not answered in other newbie threads that may help others as well.


1. What would you say is the best way to determine what a lady would enjoy? I know a lady's website is probably the best way but is there any other resources to find them? I liked the "activities this provider may enjoy" idea on STG but seems like 90% scams or unreviewed.

2. What would be the best way to communicate you may have an interest in activities that may require additional supplies like strap-on or outfits ect.?

3. Is pm on here an acceptable way to contact one of the lovely ladies to request a date or is that not recommended? How secure is it?

4. Is it common or acceptable around here for a lady to allowed you to take a shower at her location?

And last But not least
5. If a date is scheduled for 2 hours is multiple bells considered the norm?

I apologize in advance if these have been answered elsewhere I went through many newbie threads and didn't find an answer.

1. What would you say is the best way to determine what a lady would enjoy? I know a lady's website is probably the best way but is there any other resources to find them? I liked the "activities this provider may enjoy" idea on STG but seems like 90% scams or unreviewed.

Go ahead and Ask her, also once you get premium access you will get a good idea of what activities are to be expected. Might want to pony up for a month of access to get the 411 first.

2. What would be the best way to communicate you may have an interest in activities that may require additional supplies like strap-on or outfits ect.?

Go ahead and Ask her!

3. Is pm on here an acceptable way to contact one of the lovely ladies to request a date or is that not recommended? How secure is it?

Look at her profile here and see how she wants to be contacted. Doesn't hurt to send a PM and ask if that is the preferred way of communication. There is no right or wrong answer. I have seen many different options.

4. Is it common or acceptable around here for a lady to allowed you to take a shower at her location?

I guess it depends, if you find the one from STG usually cars aren't equipped with showers so that is a moot question.



And last But not least

5. If a date is scheduled for 2 hours is multiple bells considered the norm?

OK Ding-a-ling, what's with the bells? You in a choir? But seriously I know what you mean, multiple shots "MSOG" and that is just bragging! Not sure if there is a norm, but again the reviews will help.


I apologize in advance if these have been answered elsewhere I went through many newbie threads and didn't find an answer. Originally Posted by Jollypm

OK did you happen to visit this thread from Master Yoda of ECCIE:
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2154803


And one piece of advice, stay away from this one. TROUBLE!
https://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=488447

Another "Newbie" Guide posted by a Former Member of the Eccie Staff.

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1339214

Thanks exchequer! I may have been a little hasty. Now that my membership is finalized links to other threads are working. I'm gonna keep reading. Things are way different from the CL days.

Thanks exchequer! I may have been a little hasty. Now that my membership is finalized links to other threads are working. I'm gonna keep reading. Things are way different from the CL days. Originally Posted by Jollypm

One other piece of advice is to refrain from posting replies on encounter threads that are older than 30 days. Since the last time I told that to someone I probably came off sounding like an asshole, so I will be upfront.

https://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p...92&postcount=4

Thanks for the heads up Ex. Any help is fully appreciated here.