How do I find a sub?

I’m wanting to explore being a dom. How do I find a sub female in my area?

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I agree!

Originally Posted by Dab

I am a sub naturally and a sub with some clients (but not all who ask). I would recommend reading reviews and websites for girls who might have the qualities you are looking for and booking an appointment. You can either be upfront about what you are looking for (including your experience level) if you are hoping to interact in that dynamic in the first appointment. Still don’t walk in and expect someone to submit to you without a conversation about it first. I am wary of people who initiate contact by starting with the fact that they want to dom me. You could also book with someone who you think might be open to this and have a vanilla appointment to see if you have a good connection to start with and bring up the topic towards the end of the appointment. That way you have a chance to discuss and feel each other out face to face. A lot of my d/s relationships have started this way and I like it because it lets me form an opinion based on who I’ve met rather than the possibilities behind a keyboard. Good luck on your search!

You could also book with someone who you think might be open to this and have a vanilla appointment to see if you have a good connection to start with and bring up the topic towards the end of the appointment. That way you have a chance to discuss and feel each other out face to face. A lot of my d/s relationships have started this way and I like it because it lets me form an opinion based on who I’ve met rather than the possibilities behind a keyboard. Good luck on your search! Originally Posted by ivy_rose

This ^^. It allows for a level of trust to build which is important. You can find out a great deal to what levels you can go and if you are a potential “fit”.

Join fetlife and go to events in your area...who knows?

Join fetlife and go to events in your area...who knows? Originally Posted by H5678J

I was gonna say this one, too!!! (Fetlife)
H5678- beat me to it!!
Ivy rose is correct too! Good luck!