guys, try and put yourself in providers shoes

Hi guys,

I've seen posts complaining about providers, especially new ones that guys want to know more about the first time they see them. Try and put yourself in the providers shoes, and think what you sound like to them. The provider is looking out for their own safety, in other words someone that doesn't respect boundaries puts up a red flag to them. Those wanting lots of details, concern of you being LE pops up. Those wanting more pictures, just a time waster as all you want is a new hotty picture to jack off too.

While not always easy to do, looking at a situation from the other persons perspective can help ease some of the tension and problems that occur.

Well said farm.

DITTO