I know emmotional attachments has been discussed and dissected before here, and that the general concensus is to stay the hell away from emmotional attachments in the Hobby.
In the Hobby world, it's about sex and not intimacy. And for the most part, all of the Ladies that I have seen have had sort of a "force field" or "wall" or something like that protecting themselves and keeping real intimacy and emotions in check. I am always amazed at how tough these girls really are. They seem to be able to handle anything or any situation.
However, what do you do when the "force field" is not in place? When for some reason there is vulnerability? I have encountered this phenomenon a couple of times so far in the Hobby. Where she lets her guard down. Where she lets you inside the "force field".
OK. I know the stock answer. Run like hell. But it's not always that simple.
Last night my Sugarbaby (petite little 100 lb girl but tough as nails) wasn't so tough. Last night there was vulnerability. The "force field" was turned off. Vulnerability. Malfunctioning "force field". Something of the sort.
So, first of all, a Sugarbaby is quite different than a Provider. I am not sure if the same set of guidelines still apply here. And maybe this was just a momentary glitch in the "force field" and all systems will be funtioning properly today. Who knows.
Ladies, what or how do you Ladies handle it when your "force field" is malfunctioning and vulnerability or emotions or whatever happens?
Guys, since this is a SB not a Provider, should I just embrace this? Go with the flow?