Real name?

Do you Dallas guys really do this?

I was setting up an outcall with a fairly well reviewed provider who wouldn't come unless I gave her my real name? Are you fucking kidding me, who does this? I offered pm's and references but she wasn't interested. I find it hypocritical that a provider would expect to preserve her anonymity and not offer the same respect to her clients. This has happened several times before in Dallas... I never have been asked anywhere else in the country.

I never give my full real name. I think most hobbyists would agree it's just not worth the risk. Will give my first name after multiple sessions if I have a high level of comfort with the provider. I have been asked one time for my real name as part of a screening process. I declined the request and moved on. Plenty of great ladies to choose from out there! P411 makes screening quick and easy. Never had a problem with it.

I use my real name with the hopes that someone will steal my identity and maybe my credit score will actually go up for once. LOL

Nope, never give the real name.

I always give my true hobby name, if providers requires real world information move on.

A lot of the higher end girls require a real name if they don't like your references in order to do a background check.

They all call me John.....

Nope.. Never.. If a porn star wouldn't use their real name why would this hood star!! I'm going to start my own SW website as soon as I can get them to commit to letting me video the car session. It may cost me an extra 5 bucks but it's a tax write-off. Lol

I thought we were supposed to use our real name as our handle.

The first time I met a girl here I sent her a copy of my work ID with my name on it, and a business card. This was an alternative screening method and she has over 300 reviews so I felt somewhat OK. After that, no one has asked for real world info (I went to see a couple of her friends next, which made screening easy, and that built up my references). I do give out my real first name when we meet, but that's only me volunteering it.

It's rare here for a Provider to ask for your real name. Five years here and I can't ever remember an ECCIE girl asking for my real name.

This girl has many positive reviews on eccie, but seems to no longer advertise or maintain a showcase. Her ad was on backpage. When I told her that I didn't want her knowing my real name as much as she didn't want me knowing hers she responded that she is 'legit with many reviews'. So what. I'm legit and have given many reviews on different sites. She could have easily verified me.

I don't mean to pick on dallas, I have had many good times here. I'm just reminded of the time I saw pam at studio serene 3 years ago and she demanded to see my driver's license. I showed her with my thumb covering my last name. That ended up being a really good time and I almost left when she asked for ID.

This girl has many positive reviews on eccie, but seems to no longer advertise or maintain a showcase. Her ad was on backpage. When I told her that I didn't want her knowing my real name as much as she didn't want me knowing hers she responded that she is 'legit with many reviews'. So what. I'm legit and have given many reviews on different sites. She could have easily verified me.

I don't mean to pick on dallas, I have had many good times here. I'm just reminded of the time I saw pam at studio serene 3 years ago and she demanded to see my driver's license. I showed her with my thumb covering my last name. That ended up being a really good time and I almost left when she asked for ID. Originally Posted by EdwardLewis

Move on, never ever reveal your identity. If she is really that good, why she moved to backpages & posting there instead of using eccie or p411.
you have money, find someone else. may be she is one of the best but she isn't the best.

Move on, never ever reveal your identity. If she is really that good, why she moved to backpages & posting there instead of using eccie or p411.
you have money, find someone else. may be she is one of the best but she isn't the best. Originally Posted by aceofasses

Great point. I've never been asked, but OTOH I don't bother to reach out to girls who have been known to ask for it.

Real name? No way!