It's all about the power!

When discussing why a man and woman get together for escorting pleasure, I had a friend once tell me it's all about power: the woman feels she has the power of her merchandise and control of the income generated by it, the man has the power of the cash and the ability to buy the product. So, who has the power...?

Last time I checked, it was the female with the pussy. Economics, however, is a powerful motivator.

Pussy = Power

I once heard someone say that women have all the pussy and half the power so it's only a matter of time before they have all the pussy and all the power.

The POP is a powerful thing. Money alone doesn't necessarily indicate that you're getting mine...

There are some personalities that all the money in the world can't compensate for.

The POP is a powerful thing. Money doesn't necessarily indicate that you're getting my p...

There are some personalities that all the money in the world can't compensate for. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

If I was a female escort, there would be some guys who would never get me. As a male, there are some women who couldn't give it to me, or even pay me.

But, why do we get together for escorting pleasure? I don't think it has that much to do with power. A lot of women do it strictly for the money. Others do it for money, but also find it exhilarating and thrilling, or just enjoyable. Some don't have to do it for money at all. Some have a tremendous libido and need more sex than one man can supply. Some enjoy seeing men expose their most private feelings.
Maybe some men do it to feel they have power over women. As for me, being able to purchase a temporary relationship does not create a feeling of power. For some of us, it is the only way we get any loving. I date escorts to help satisfy both physical and emotional needs. It is about more than just having sex. If the woman shows passion, and really gets into it, it satisfies my craving to be needed and wanted. If I can see the lady is enjoying me, I feel soooo good! If the lady acts like she would rather be elsewhere, I would just as soon stay alone and masturbate. I appreciate the ladies who have shared intimacy, and the beauty and joy of a man and woman joined together in ecstasy, no matter what their motivation was. It is the release of emotions more than the release of semen that truly satisfies. I remember when I couldn't cum physically for Shelby, and she was worried about it, yet to this day, I still remember it as one of my very best experiences. Nah, I don't worry about the power.

I agree the experience is much better for me when I am with someone I enjoy being with. Similar Personality, with enough brains to be interesting, and some emotional connection adds to the pleasure of shared intimacies . However, some disagree, they are all for diversity, pure physical pleasure and prefer no emotional/intellectual interaction. T me the brain is an erogenous zone, and the experience is vastly improved when more physicality is involved.

Good thread bluetone, and I think everyone’s comments make a valid point on the subject (in one way or the other). I personally prefer a more casual and extended date, so as to allow myself and a provider to get to know one another a little before the real fun begins. I date outside the hobby on a regular basis and I handle those matters with a completely different pair of gloves, but it by no means, takes away from the pleasure that I share with a provider. Intimacy comes in many forms and I like to think that I can handle whatever is placed on my plate and I will always treat a lady like a lady (Southern Roots), and I enjoy a providers time every bit as much as I enjoy a date in the real world.

Haha ...it's not at all about "power". But like tuckaho mentioned ....it's All about the thrill/s

As it was once explained to me by a veteran of a former board:

YMMV

Your Money.......My Vagina

'nuf said.

As it was once explained to me by a veteran of a former board:

YMMV

Your Money.......My Vagina

'nuf said. Originally Posted by B2driver

Or, how about YMMV:

Your Money...My BVD's.

I've still got 'em, btw. And Pam thought she scored when she got the hat. Hehe

Or, how about YMMV:

Your Money...My BVD's.

I've still got 'em, btw. And Pam thought she scored when she got the hat. Hehe Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

as I recall Pam has more than the hat. Didn't B2 leave behind a pair of boxers there too?

as I recall Pam has more than the hat. Didn't B2 leave behind a pair of boxers there too? Originally Posted by MrHappy4u

Damn. And here I thought I was special because I got the undies. Lol

Now I've been wondering where those went! Mystery solved!!!

Wonder if I should mount a "Reclaim My Clothing" Tour?

Humm........

...Wonder if I should mount a "Reclaim My Clothing" Tour?

Humm........ Originally Posted by B2driver

I don't think Pam's gonna cooperate with that. She told me she was going to take a picture of herself in your hat, your undies & nothing else, and rebelliously post it in your review of me. She wants some bad girl attention and she said nothing's gonna stop her.

She's pretty hot when she's incorrigible.

Not sure it can get much hotter than a post with the two of you involved!

Anyone see the pizza delivery boy?