I have always been a girl who is reference friendly, I see a lot of girls aren't that way.
I was thinking, if there was a system that they got paid $10 bucks or so for giving the reference. Then they might actually give it, since they're getting something from it.
Or better yet, wish we had more sites set up like p411! Makes it so easy and safe.
I've had a few girls be amazing here, others I can't say the same for. They don't want to share lol