Is it acceptable for ladies to not place or insure condom changes in changing holes or partners? Can guys be trusted to insure the ladies safety is always in mind?

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In the much talked about Orgy in San Antonio that took place a week ago 3 ladies made all holes available to 7 swinging dicks.

It is getting a lot of talk with multiple threads as well as multiple reviews.

I asked the following question and received the following answer in a CoEd thread where the professionalism of the ladies was being applauded.

What was done to insure that Condoms were changed in between activities?

Reading the reviews describes a plethora of activities with the ladies constantly in play with either a guy, multiple guys or another lady.

What was done to insure that a cock did not leave one girls ass and in the heat of the moment get thrust into the vacant puss of another lady? Originally Posted by Whispers



What was done Whispers is each participant being mindful of the others. Everyone was VERY careful and nothing inappropriate happened. We were all watching out for each other. Originally Posted by sandy


It was applauded of course by another member

Good answer Sandy and adequate precautions.

Dogg Originally Posted by Doglegg


Not all the guys new all the ladies nor the ladies all the guys and screening seems to have been handled by the one lady.


1) Slave Guinevere worked to put the event together. She screened the guys, and (I assume vetted the other two women based on their willingness/eagerness to participate. SG's judgements were outstanding. The women combined skill, stamina, and lustfulness (and this account is so clinical; whereas the experience itself was purely carnal) to a sublime degree. Originally Posted by Willen



For those that do not know, my review count on ECCIE is by no means reflective of my experiences in the Hobby. I had over 500+ reviews before I pretty much quit reviewing on ASPD before the Migration. I have participated in a lot of 3 somes over the years but never an Orgy. 3 somes tend to become a flurry of activity and there are times when the ladies are involved with each other. There is enough publicly posted to summarize that this orgy was no different including the following.


4) the ratio of women to men was sufficient. This probably seems sexist, but it isn't intended to be. A couple of guys--veterans of previous group scenes--worried whether 3 women could provide for 7 guys. [Note: it was originally going to be 6 guys; a seventh was added late in the game.] We need not have worried--all guys went away satisfied. But my impression is that the three women were nearly exhausted.

Will
Originally Posted by Willen
We all manage risk in dealing with our preferred hobby and activities.

I have been, what others would consider, a very regular and trusted client of a lot ladies as well as agencies over the years.

It is incredibly easy to get caught up in these activities with more than 2 people involved. In only a couple of rare instances was I not stopped and a condom changed by the provider I was with when changing ladies or holes.
Personally in evaluating risk I rule out ladies that participate in anything more than a 3some and try to never do a 3some unless I have seen each lady one on one first.

The risk is the primary motivator for me to rule ladies like these out. But considering I prefer a more GFE session, Orgy Girls and even PSE tends to be an image I don’t like having pop into my head.

Questions…

1) It has been presented by a member that was present and experienced with orgies that this was a properly run event with no concerns

a. Is it acceptable that one lady handles all the screening ?

b. Is it acceptable that the guys are left to their own scrutiny to insure they change condoms in between ladies and holes?

2) For those with experience in the Orgy scene, is this the “norm”?
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I tried to do the math but that ended in a severe headache.

Also how does one maintain an erection in front of six other guys?

Condom switching should only be an issue for the providers right?

Maybe if the rotation is managed to where it was always ass to mouth then the flavor should be a tell that condoms have been switched or changed.

( Oops! who had pork for lunch?)
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Also how does one maintain an erection in front of six other guys?
Originally Posted by harkontume
Viagra!!
I know I only allow 2 holes to be played with the one in my head lol and my cooch. I put condoms on and I take them off, not only for my safty but to make sure it doesn't get everywhere, and then I offer diaper wipes or a clean warm wet towel, and I wash him up. I figure that's your time to feel like a king so I try to treat them like one.
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I know I only allow 2 holes to be played with the one in my head lol and my cooch. I put condoms on and I take them off, not only for my safty but to make sure it doesn't get everywhere, and then I offer diaper wipes or a clean warm wet towel, and I wash him up. I figure that's your time to feel like a king so I try to treat them like one. Originally Posted by shayla84
Good response. It was a silly subject to start with.. and you capped if off quite fairly
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Good response. It was a silly subject to start with.. Originally Posted by nuglet
Why is that?

It was prompted by a discussion of an orgy where the ladies were not handling their own safety making sure condoms were changed. It was simply trusted by all that the guys would police themselves......

Her response indicates she does not trust anyone to wrap it other than herself and you seem to agree with her....

So why a silly subject?
What? Posting this conjecture in SA wasn't enough for you. Poor little rejected fucktard striking back for being rejected?????? You are pathetic!
wow really
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Charity begins at home. Wish you good luck.
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What? Posting this conjecture in SA wasn't enough for you. Poor little rejected fucktard striking back for being rejected?????? You are pathetic! Originally Posted by Louigi

LMAO! Its always so entertaining seeing someone implode.

simply looking for answers sir. dont make it something its not.
LMAO! Its always so entertaining the eing someone implode.

simply looking for answers sir. dont make it something its not. Originally Posted by Whispers
you're questions were answered! Now you're just being like the slime I scrape off my boat every so often
This is the hobby. You should know by now there's no such thing as acceptable or unacceptable as a general rule.

It just depends upon what group you're asking.

BBBJ is quite unsafe and unacceptable to many yet it's pretty much a requirement to survive as a provider on Eccie.

Rubbing the tip of an uncovered pecker against the outside of a cooch or brown star to get you going is equally unsafe yet not an issue for most.

This is the hobby where nothing is acceptable yet everything is acceptable.

We all avoid BBFS and those who admit to doing it yet there is little difference std wise between that and the above mentioned.

It's all risky business. Pick your poison. Anything less than "You had me Covered from hello" is pure hypocrisy.
I am sorry I think this is legit. People have the right to ask those questions, those are very important questions, its literally your ass and life on the line if you don't ask, or see where peoples heads are at in those situations. If you think about it were all fucking eachother, theres so many providers here and hobbiest and people go from one to another. I think this is a smart question to ask and see how people take it and how they react or maybe even what they say, is gonna give you a view about whats really going on or around lol
I am sorry I think this is legit. People have the right to ask those questions, those are very important questions, its literally your ass and life on the line if you don't ask, or see where peoples heads are at in those situations. If you think about it were all fucking eachother, theres so many providers here and hobbiest and people go from one to another. I think this is a smart question to ask and see how people take it and how they react or maybe even what they say, is gonna give you a view about whats really going on or around lol Originally Posted by shayla84

True the question is legit. My point was it's pretty much moot considering all activities other than 100% covered or HJ-only share the high risks so the term acceptable is relative.

You've admitted to easily doing 5 BBBJ's a day. Do you actually think that is safer than what the OP is addressing?

I would think one orgy regardless of what was covered or wasn't has Far better odds of safety than 5 BBBJ's per day.

I'm not judging the activity or your great service but merely pointing out that a high volume uncovered BnG provider wanting to judge people's views on this topic is kind of silly.
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I'm not judging the activity or your great service but merely pointing out that a high volume uncovered BnG provider wanting to judge people's views on this topic is kind of silly.[/QUOTE]

As silly as a newbies opinion of said Legitimate Reputable Provider.