This is a question for the ladies more than the men. However, you guys can chime in. Recently, I attempted to set up a meeting with a provider who is a member on this site. I assumed that because she was a member and I was a member, the the ability to verify each other should be easier. Evidently not! She requested info as to who I was with. Is she not able to see my reviews? I know the ROS is supposed to be hidden, but what can the ladies see? Can she see our postings? I would assume that because I can see enough information to get a sense about her, I'm assuming that she can also get enough information on this site to see about me. She also asked for verification of work. Because she is a verified and very well reviewed provider, I shared but most likely will not do this again.
Now, I am very aware and sensitive to you ladies needing to feel safe. I live in a region of the country where a number of girls were found in the Mesa. Nobody cared because they were " Known to be drug users and prostitutes". So, let me clearly state that I support and get it! What I am requesting is this. What do you do to insure my safety?
When using a shotgun, I have a better chance to hitting my target, however, I also have a greater chance of hitting something i didn't want to hit! Like LE. For my safety, I tend to be selective, look for verified providers, don't play that often, and then erase all links once I'd done. I choose to not play using many sites. I was tempted to try RB, but now I'm glad i didn't. That's why I choose to use this site and only this site. If that means I limit my opportunities, I can live with that. If a provider is not comfortable with that, we're good. I'll just move on with no hard feelings. This is how I try to protect myself.
Now, I'm asking, what do you do to protect your guests? Do you keep stored your meetings? How safe is your data that you keep and share with other providers? You want and deserve to to expect me information to insure your confidentially and safety. What do you do to insure ours?