Am I Wrong

Today i had a gentlemen i have seen before contact me by text the text were kind of weird i want to know what are the limits in gfe when we have done gfe already and asking will we be able to kiss and such. I asked for a picture and he sent one that he sent upon first meeting but i still was not comfortable do to him asking my rates again specifically if it was 200/hr so i asked if he would send a pic holding up a certain amount of fingers which he then refused am i just to paranoid or was i right.
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  • 01-01-2016, 11:26 PM
Safety first. There's plenty of things that can get us guys aggregated but never if we understand you have good reason and feel something is strange.

It sounds like someone else was on his phone, maybe a wife, girlfriend, or other jealous woman.
turbo-dog's Avatar
If your spider senses are tingling, you need to pay attention to them. Much better to lose a potential session than the other alternatives...
SknyDiva's Avatar
What is it you think you are wrong about Hun? I see nothing wrong with anything that you did. If you don't get the information you need to feel safe and comfortable for that meeting.
Then you don't need to justify to anyone why you ask the questions you ask. They are not you. If they don't want to answer questions hmmmm..and YES YOU CAN ASK Questions even if you saw them 100 times
skeeter's Avatar
Always go with your gut .... If you've got that feeling pay attention.
holmes50's Avatar
Always go with your gut...........always.
DATYMAN's Avatar
Paranoid if you have seen him already? Unless you had a bad first?
JadaMari SHOULD heed her instincts, and deny him if she does not feel comfortable.

I had a similar situation happen recently. This man called me from a different number, said he met me ONCE a long time ago, which when he described where we met, it was about 3 or 4 years ago. I politely asked him to share his information with me for screening purposes, and he kept dodging the requests.

Needless to say he was blocked.

Miss JadaMari, you did the right thing. As the ladies say, not all money is good money. ALWAYS trust your gut instincts, and always stick to your 'guns'.
myren1900's Avatar
If someone looses a phone, for example a hobby phone, and does not care to get the number locked, the info on it can easily be used to pretend to be that person.

Anyone can read eccie reviews and pretend to be the person with that handle. Without a pm to back it up it would be suspicious. Assuming someones identity is unfortunately fairly easy.

So, yes, better be careful if something seems out of place. If a client already has seen you, repeating some info should not be a problem for him.
Nope!!! YOU are correct....Follow your gut instinct because it is telling you the truth...
If you decline to see him, he will just have to understand..
M.M.
Precious_b's Avatar
The consensus is you did right.
If the guy sent you a picture in the past than he should not have any problem doing so again to confirm. And they are idiots if they don't understand why you ask.

I have experienced a few people of late getting their accounts hacked. I always challenge suspicious contacts. 10 out of 10 times they are imposters when they refuse my request to authenticate.
The best thing is to talk on the phone and get a better sense of what's happening
pornodave69's Avatar
If he's asking questions about doing things you've already done before that's sounds fishy to me. And if he won't send a photo then it sounds like somebody else has his phone and is trying to catch him.
Thank you all I am. Glad to learn from you all
As others have said, you trusted your gut. And what's important is doing what is right for your safety.