from personal experience,+ 1 you have to form a level of trust and relationship with the person. I would recommend visiting a professional femdom to get the full experience. Let her know you are new and wanting to explore. Learn your limits and what it is you seek and want to get out of experience. Once you know that, you know more of what to expect with a male dom. Always communicate and have a safe word ready.
I've found that when experimenting with fetishes or dom/sub play with someone, I like to experience that person for a regular normal vanilla session to feel them out and figure out what their likes and dislikes are. then in the next meeting with them I do the kinky stuff.
Trust is key. Originally Posted by savak