Share your story of why you became a hobbyist or provider.
I started as a dancer when I was 18, I had no job experience and no education and was living on my own and could not afford my bills on minimum wage. I then went on to work at a local massage parlor making 3x's the money I did as a dancer. At the massage parlor I met a lot of hobbyist and took off on my own from there.
I continue in the business because I love what I do, Love meeting are the great guys and gals, don't like commitment and can't leave out the money is great.
Hugs
Sabra
- Guest102612
- 10-10-2012, 09:20 AM
- livn2do
- 10-11-2012, 12:11 AM
I got into the hobby because I love women. I love everything about them. The curves, the soft skin, how each one of you has their own unique smell and taste. Each one of you is delicious in her own way. I love the way the fabric of a long dress hangs on a woman's frame or how a necklace lays between a woman's breasts directing my eyes south. I love the sensuality of a woman's lips when we kiss and the warmth of her vagina wrapped around me when we fuck. I love how just being with a woman calms me and soothes my soul. I love how a woman moans when you find her spot(s) and then rewards you for a job well done. I find all women to be fascinating and I want to learn all I can about them. So Sabra, when might you come to Des Moines so I can study you?
- Guest102612
- 10-11-2012, 11:29 AM
Trying to plan out a time to come there. Soon
- reece.mcneal
- 10-11-2012, 12:43 PM
How I became a hobbyist. Kind of by accident. Had a neighbor years ago. Hot single mom that was in her 30's. I was in my early 20's. Anyway, I had known her for a while and in on our of conversations while doing laundry....apartment laundry facility, she said she was short on rent. I was kidding and mentioned to her that i could help out in return for certain favors. Keep in mind, I was totally kidding around. But turns out she was serious and said with a straight face, ok.
I of course didn't know what to say. Just stood there looking dumb. I changed the subject and we talked about other things. I got done with laundry, went back to my apartment and about an hour later she knocks on the door. I open it and she's (Janice) standing there. She walks into my apartment and says she's thought about it and wanted to take me up on the offer. She said she's $150,short on rent and she's willing to do some trading. I smile. I'm still nervous but ask her so what exactly are you offering? She tells me that we can do anything that I want. She says you can do what you want. Needless to say, that was a start of a very mutually agreeable situation. It went on for quite some time. She even got engaged and we kept up with things until she got married. Guess at that point, she felt it was cheating.
It was a number of years before I got into the hobby with a professional but that's another story.
I of course didn't know what to say. Just stood there looking dumb. I changed the subject and we talked about other things. I got done with laundry, went back to my apartment and about an hour later she knocks on the door. I open it and she's (Janice) standing there. She walks into my apartment and says she's thought about it and wanted to take me up on the offer. She said she's $150,short on rent and she's willing to do some trading. I smile. I'm still nervous but ask her so what exactly are you offering? She tells me that we can do anything that I want. She says you can do what you want. Needless to say, that was a start of a very mutually agreeable situation. It went on for quite some time. She even got engaged and we kept up with things until she got married. Guess at that point, she felt it was cheating.
It was a number of years before I got into the hobby with a professional but that's another story.
- dsmiowan
- 10-11-2012, 02:06 PM
It's all about DATY and the BBBJ. As much as I like to be the giver, I really enjoy the look on her face when she sees mine for the first time. It's even better to see them try to get it all the way in. Only two have been able to do so.
- MsElena
- 10-11-2012, 02:51 PM
I'm afraid to ask how big dsmiowan.
- iowaguy411
- 10-16-2012, 11:18 PM
Long time lurker... not participated yet... too nervous.
- livn2do
- 10-16-2012, 11:22 PM
You just participated or are you referring to actually having a taste of the forbidden fruit that you are too nervous for?
- FastWheels
- 10-16-2012, 11:52 PM
Interesting thread... I am pretty new here only have a few posts so far. I have however seen 5 providers so far...I guess I have had something like 8 sessions. It has been interesting to say the least.
Let me just say being married to a woman who is half again the woman who said "I do" and who does not have time for you at least makes it so you don't really give a crap about having sex with her. The frustration was before the massive weight gain when she was still hot and not much in the mood... should have headed for the hills then!
So, if you don't feed the dog at home he will find food elsewhere (as a provider said to me once, I thought it was funny)! Had a GF for awhile but she was unreliable to say the least and one day when she flaked on me I saw an ad for Asian Ann and gave her a call...she said something about pre-screening and P411 and I went there first and now am here.
Let me just say being married to a woman who is half again the woman who said "I do" and who does not have time for you at least makes it so you don't really give a crap about having sex with her. The frustration was before the massive weight gain when she was still hot and not much in the mood... should have headed for the hills then!
So, if you don't feed the dog at home he will find food elsewhere (as a provider said to me once, I thought it was funny)! Had a GF for awhile but she was unreliable to say the least and one day when she flaked on me I saw an ad for Asian Ann and gave her a call...she said something about pre-screening and P411 and I went there first and now am here.
- iowaguy411
- 10-17-2012, 11:17 PM
- livn2do
- 10-17-2012, 11:30 PM
Lots of lovlies around here that would be more then willing to help you out with that. Stick with the verified ladies and you'll be find. 1st time is always nerve racking but once you get a taste you'll be back for more.
- HMS2448
- 10-18-2012, 04:00 AM
- snickersia
- 10-18-2012, 08:19 AM
Well said Livin. My first was about 10 years ago and I can't seem to stop. Not that I really want to.
My story is like most, inattentive Wife and I was tired of having a party of one. Porn was my best friend back then. I met a hottie from KC that was touring Dsm and it has been a ride hanging on for dear life at times (thank you to Dallas for some of those rides) and outrageously sexy and fun (too many ladies on this board alone to thank for that). Every time I try to hang up my box of covers, I miss the fun and adventure of all you ladies and I am back in the game.
My story is like most, inattentive Wife and I was tired of having a party of one. Porn was my best friend back then. I met a hottie from KC that was touring Dsm and it has been a ride hanging on for dear life at times (thank you to Dallas for some of those rides) and outrageously sexy and fun (too many ladies on this board alone to thank for that). Every time I try to hang up my box of covers, I miss the fun and adventure of all you ladies and I am back in the game.
- sweetblonde2
- 10-18-2012, 10:00 AM
I will try to not make this too awful long, but here is my story...
I started in the hobby about 7 years ago when I found out that my boyfriend who travels for his job was seeing escorts while he was on the road. When I first found out what he was doing, I was extremely pissed off and thought to myself "well fuck him, if he can do it so can I". So I put an add up on e.com and two days later had my first appointment...I was so nervous and so shy...but he new I was a newbie and was very polite and respectful, he was willing to go as slow as I needed it to go. So anyways...I ended up having appointments every day for the next two weeks, which is when I decided to sit down and confront him. I told him that I knew what he was doing, and told him what I had been doing and that I had no intentions of stopping and that it really didn't bother me if he wanted to see girls while on the road, as long as I knew he'd come home to me. He and I aren't together anymore, but to be honest I'm not sure I could stop if I ended up in a new relationship. I trully enjoy what I do and I've made many friends and I don't want to stop seeing them!!!
I started in the hobby about 7 years ago when I found out that my boyfriend who travels for his job was seeing escorts while he was on the road. When I first found out what he was doing, I was extremely pissed off and thought to myself "well fuck him, if he can do it so can I". So I put an add up on e.com and two days later had my first appointment...I was so nervous and so shy...but he new I was a newbie and was very polite and respectful, he was willing to go as slow as I needed it to go. So anyways...I ended up having appointments every day for the next two weeks, which is when I decided to sit down and confront him. I told him that I knew what he was doing, and told him what I had been doing and that I had no intentions of stopping and that it really didn't bother me if he wanted to see girls while on the road, as long as I knew he'd come home to me. He and I aren't together anymore, but to be honest I'm not sure I could stop if I ended up in a new relationship. I trully enjoy what I do and I've made many friends and I don't want to stop seeing them!!!
- vegasbaby7
- 10-18-2012, 10:02 AM
Took a trip to Vegas by myself in August '11. Thinking about what to do a couple months prior, decided WTF, I'm gonna visit a brothel! Researched online & picked Sherry's Ranch. Other than the cost I'd highly recommend Sherry's. Another week goes by & decided WTF, if I'm gonna visit a brothel I may as well see an escort too! Pre-booked with 2 after much online research. At least as much as I could research without the aid of sites like here, TER, p411, Date-Check, GBN, Humaniplex/Troothsayerz (all of which I am a member now). Had one excellent date & one just ok date that trip. Got introduced to D-C by the lady I had the excellent date with, incl. a free 3 months. Learned about the other sites from other ladies on future dates. Now I'm the proverbial kid in a candy store! And like the kid I want more candy than I can afford so hoping to win the lottery, soon! LOL!