Verified members getting the shaft.

21 yrs of doing what I do, being a part of some kind of community has always been essential to me.

Back in the day; ASPD and P411 now 14 different boards across this country. Some active in certain States. I have yet to find one board for every State.
Now with laws changing daily us ladies have to show real government ID hold a paper show the entire face, take a video. I mean a lot to get verified. Not sure exactly what the men must do on every site. I do know on p411 they have to do more than others but it sure does make it easier and that is why they are offered a discount on our form. Because the screening process is wayyyyy easier on us.
I feel it very odd and disconcerting that the gents who do go through the verification process through the boards putting email and other private info up to someone, those who make it easier and safer do not get some kind of perk some how for doing that.



How frustrating it must be to do all that and then go on a BS SITE like Skip the Games or List Crawler to see a Lower Price or better options.
21 years of doing what I do and my prices have been the same everywhere. No matter if I fly, drive, pay for a rental car pay for hotels or in my in call at home prices where always flat.
The non verified and the verified being on the same level!
NO MORE!.
After 21 years I have changed my rates. For those who have seen me have been Grandfathered in at the old rates. THANK YOU FOR BEING A REPEATER.
For those who are a verified active member of the review board you also can take advantage of my old rate. A message on the review board you are a registered active member is required. Please put city and State in the title.


I remember it taking me $1,000.00 just in transportation and boarding to go to Alaska plus everything is wayyyyy higher and they paid the same rate as me sitting at home not having to deal with the pain of traveling. IT DID NOT SEEM FAIR. To me or yall.
And to go on my site and say New York Alaska and x x x State yall pay this but Texas or home pay this ....seemed also disconcerting. Because at home I take a way bigger safety risk then in any other city. And safety risks are way more of a problem the out of pocket expenses, to me anyway.



MY TWITTER FOLLOWERS You are appreciated but that is not a verified board. Unless of course you follow me and I follow you and it is your real life account that your Grandma Lucile is on and well that is a good verification if you feel comfortable in Grandma seeing my tits as your friend on your page now what better verification is that.


My days of being a advertising full time provider are coming to a halt very soon.
My traveling days are being short lived for real. I am so torn I LOVE BEING AT HOME but I LOVE SEEING THE WORLD.
I am truly an oxymoron. Enjoying room service and a home cooked meal.
Loving picnics and 5 star eateries at the very same time.
Fine wine and aged scotch yet can turn up some home grown whiskey or even MD 2020
LOL oops did I say that out loud.
HAVE FUN HOBBY SAFE!
AND VERIFIED MEMBERS YOU ARE APPRECIATED!

I wouldn't mind giving you the shaft...

hey beautiful,
others that are not in our position, don't get it. How could they? When I was in cooperate, I could never fathom this, what it is, and all that goes into it. You obviously have some intellect and empathy behind what you do. It is difficult to reach others, care for them, and make them happy while financing your home, office, and travel expenses. You're awesome though, and just keep making decisions that are good for you while trying to be wonderful to others. Best wishes sweetheart!

I live in a rural area where there is RARELY, more like never, a quality lady such as you. Unfortunately, STG is about all there is here, and it is truly a place where you will get ripped off. deposits, C & D, and far worse. AMPS are the only semi ok experience, but so many of them are the lower tier of the "circuit" Add to that the fact that SO many ladies are now demanding more real world information, even when one is a member here on ECCIE, P411 and TOB. 70 + okays on 411 seem to mean nothing. I feel your pain, I hope you fare well.

All your "being a provider" costs are on you, that is the cost of doing business. I do not think there is a business out there that is 100% profit and no costs.

There are providers that have raised their donation prices, not because of the cost of living or other costs (even tho they say that is the reason), but it is because they want a boob job or some other elective but non essential surgery.

Do you and if the cons outweigh the pros of being a provider, quit providing. I have basically quit seeing providers and go with SB sites or dancers at strip clubs because there is less drama, no clock watching and usually, I am not having sex with a girl that has had 1000+ dicks in her and shows in session she is numb to the experience!

I live in a rural area where there is RARELY, more like never, a quality lady such as you. Unfortunately, STG is about all there is here, and it is truly a place where you will get ripped off. deposits, C & D, and far worse. AMPS are the only semi ok experience, but so many of them are the lower tier of the "circuit" Add to that the fact that SO many ladies are now demanding more real world information, even when one is a member here on ECCIE, P411 and TOB. 70 + okays on 411 seem to mean nothing. I feel your pain, I hope you fare well. Originally Posted by carguy1989

When it comes to ECCIE and P411, I look at the activity level. How many posts, when was last one, last review and last okay. If you have 70+ okays and the last one was over a year ago, I ask if you have seen any of them recently, and if they have, I have you ask them to update your okays. I am fortunate to have in my back pocket of friends, a former member of ASPD so I can run those handles past him. In some cases, I will ask for current screening information. And it is unique to the veteran person asking to see me.

It because we like to give you the shaft.