Making Strap On Play Easier

A couple of comments from other threads are that after 6 thrusts it gets painful/harder... Here are some ways to make it easier to use a strap on:

Change his position. If you are in a position where you are finding it hard to thrust, change it around.

If possible, switch to a position where you are standing up, such as bending someone over a desk.

A great position for newbies (and I still love it) is a man doggy style on the edge of the bed. If possible have him come a little ways off the bed (so his feet are off the bed and bend his knees more...

Have HIM push on and off the strap on in a doggy style position. That will not only allow him more control, it will give you a break.

If there isn't more than 40 lbs in weight differential, have him straddle you.

Add lube. Easier pushing...

Take away any element where you have to deal with any other body parts... if you have ankles on your shoulders, it's harder to thrust... So change the position so you don't have to do this.

Don't walk and chew gum at the same time... Unless you have a sling, don't worry about a "reach-around."

Hope this helps...

Annabel Lee

90% mental. The rest is technique, a good Fleet enema before,
and lots of lube. Enjoy gentlemen... This lady has an awesome website.

Definetly good advice, I like to use a strap on that fits around my thigh. Then I position myself either on a bench type furnishing or lie myself on the bed, facing up, feet flat on the floor, letting him lift and lower himself and freeing me to use my hands. It is my favorite way to deliver. Without the sensation of skin on skin it is hard to maintain motivated rythmn and most strap-ons will feel somewhat loose thus causeing you to want to direct with your hand, this isnt a problem with the thigh strap.

From another thread: Love the feeldoe. No straps, no pants, none of that crap. But I'm a skin freak so yeah that's the (non) strap-on for me! I read an article in the last 7-10 days about a new Japanese electric/mechanized masturbater. If I remember and can find it, I'll post it. Originally Posted by babee

I would love to see this in action.

Thanks Annabelle! I love strap on play; to give a man the gift of having someone inside of them is delirious for me. But it is a bit, not difficult, but awkward for me. You hit the nail on the head; it is the thrusting. It is an alien-feeling move for me.

I don’t know about standing, man doggie. I just don’t know how sexy a step stool would be in the bedroom! I think I’ll try standing LAZY, man doggie.

I'm one of those that say after six thrusts, I'm spent. But I'm willing to work on that!!! I've asked some men about it and it's just the shape of a woman (especially a larger woman who is REALLY curvy) that makes it more difficult to have that "swive" motion that men seem to do with little effort.

I appreciate the input here, folks. Anal play with men is just very important to me and I appreciate the helpful hints, annabellee.

Thanks!
Elisabeth

Something I found to be helpful is to have your man lay on his back with a pillow or a wedge under his butt. This makes the thrusting easier. Strap on play turns me on almost as much as daty. There is something so sexy about a man that can totally let go and enjoy things that are taboo.

The thrusting move you gals are talking about is you have to use your pelvis like Elvis LOL! , instead of using the whole body that will tire you out quicker. Its more like dancing and doesn't come natural it takes practice but well worth it. you can go longer and faster or even slow tempo also the latex bikini strap on are the best cause the actually feel like you have a real cock attached to you . just a little tip for y'all . dam! I wish I had some one do me right now!

Sounds like some time for some core training, lol.

Hmmm, not tried this, as I suck as a sub, tend to give too much feedback to my Domme, topping from the bottom, as it where.

But, maybe....

Kneeling, with him on a wedge would probably work, and then you can go full body to change it, and do the deep thrusts...
Feeldoe, hmmmmm...

Olivia... Naaa, I am too dom, have to take you.

Yes I agree strap-on play is like dancing. You have to find that special rhythm and with each partner it's different. I think the latex ones fit the best, IMHO.

.........Olivia... Naaa, I am too dom, have to take you. Originally Posted by PurplePussyEater

PPL, you got that right. I’m just not a man so doing the man type things just isn’t natural for me. Besides, domesticaly, I’m a subbie all the time with my man in general.

I have a couple of Feel-does. They are awesome. And my harness's fet great as well. It is so hot to fcuk like a man. Too bad I am not able to shoot a wad on the back though. I feel so damn cheated!!

And it is nearly impossible to give him a reach around. have tried and tried to no avail.

It is so hot to fcuk like a man. Originally Posted by Ezmerelda

It's even hotter to use a strap on and fuck like a woman!

Annabel Lee

Annabel Lee,

Lady, You know the funniest thing, i have never been taken by a woman with my own harness

damn.


and lol at the fcuking like a woman.