How come my post got deleted

I didn’t swear or slander was just asking about a certain provider. And my post got deleted
Sorry I was trying to find out about her before I took the plunge

It was moved to the Mens private section so if you have access you can see it there

Thanks. I feel dumb. This site is hard to navigate on the phone

I got an infraction for mentioning a flavor of the week provider.
He actually counted how many times I commented. Crazy

I got one for talking about a certain provider in a post about that provider... So whatever.