Cuckold Fantasies!

Many years ago when I was still married, my husband and I dabbled many times in the MFM thing! Yes, it was exciting until one day my husband decided that he wanted to play with the other man at which he did!

OMG, you have no idea how I felt or what was going through my mind! Was he Bi and I never knew it? Was he gay and leading a secret life? Hell, I had no idea! Of course, every time I asked him, he told me no! But, deep down inside, I felt he was! Then one night during one of his drunken stupors, he brought up the subject of cuckold!

He expressed on many occasions that he wanted to be cuckolded and I just blew him off as being drunk! But, he persisted and wanted to join a cuckold website! Thank goodness I decided to end our marriage because I just couldn't handle it!

Fast forward several years later.......

I was out with a friend the other night and he too mentioned that he would like to watch his woman with another man! Of course you can imagine what was going through my mind when he shared his fantasy! I thought, gawd damn, here we go again! LOL!

I thought about this long and hard over the past few days and did a little research on why men like this!

After a little bit of research, this fantasy really has nothing to do with being Bi or gay even though I'm sure it is for some!

I found it interesting that alot of men who are in the corporate world tend to have the cuckold fantasy only because they are used to making corporate decisions and just want someone to make decisions for them in the cuckold world! Kinda takes the pressure off of them!

Your thoughts?

I think I need to find someone who wants to be cuckholded....is that a word?

Lana, I can understand your thought process as your ex was playing with the other man. Been there, done that, have the Tshirt and all that good stuff.

Seriously though, there is something about being watched that I find incredibly erotic...and so does my 'other half'. It's hard to find someone who just wants to watch, though. And I am not judgmental but I wouldn't really want it to turn into a bisexual sausage-fest. Not my cup 'o' tea.

Maybe we need a cuckhold forum? I kid, I kid....

You ladies should check out the Another Realm forum plenty of this discussed with maturity there!

I agree being watched is hot!

Ladies I am totally 1000% straight, dont want another man within 1 mile of me when I am BCD. Now I dont mind two ladies together but no other men, end of statement. So if you or other ladies are having a hard time finding a completely straight man, give me a call you will never hear me mention another man ever.

No thank you, Lana.
I'm a 1-on-1 kinda guy.

No thank you, Lana.
I'm a 1-on-1 kinda guy. Originally Posted by Crossroads

CR, and you are sooooooo good at being 1-on-1!

I would guess it would be like watching a porn but you are there.

Now a FMF that is another story ...I love them ..participated in a threesome with two of my all time favorite ladies and it was nice except it was too short one a sexxy buxom blonde the other lady a very sexxy redhead ...and I do enjoy it when the ladies enjoy each other and would love to meet those two AGAIN...maybe they would invite me back .....I dont even mind participating a MFM ...but dont plan on doing the other guy .....lots of problems without solutions .....lets all just have FUN ...LOL

Now a FMF that is another story ...I love them ..participated in a threesome with two of my all time favorite ladies and it was nice except it was too short one a sexxy buxom blonde the other lady a very sexxy redhead ...and I do enjoy it when the ladies enjoy each other and would love to meet those two AGAIN...maybe they would invite me back .....I dont even mind participating a MFM ...but dont plan on doing the other guy .....lots of problems without solutions .....lets all just have FUN ...LOL Originally Posted by tsrv4me

LOL! You know the drill......ask our lovely redhead!

Why, whomever might you be referring to?

LOL


I've done plenty of multiple partner visits...more of the 2 men action activities have occurred in my private life.

Many times I thought the idea of cuckolding usually involved men seeing the lady of their choosing with a particular type of man while they watched and not being involved much at all.

I could be wrong - but that's what I gathered from the Another Realm posts.

Cuckolding is not so much about making a decision for him as much as not letting him have one to make at all... and then having him hear about or watch her enjoy the person she chose to play with and depending on the scenario it may go as far as making the cuckold watch another do a better job than he does as he is either ignored completely or told of how he could never be as good.

Domination is about making decisions. Cuckolding is about taking them away and dangling it in his face.

Cuckolding is a form of play that involves an element of psychological sadomasochism usually. An MFM scenario in which one merely watches is probably not cuckolding. That is more than likely akin to voyeurism fetish being explored.

I used to have a great times with a couple in Sydney. The three of us spent great times together, to everyone's delight.

Then, one day, hubby decided he wanted to send the Mrs. over alone to visit me. He called and asked if I'd be OK with that. Took me all of 69 nanoseconds to agree, and from that point on, most of our meetings involved her coming to my house and our spending a fun 2-3 hours together.

Her hubby's kicks were in having her come home and tell him everything we did...Now, that's not exactly cuckolding as I understand it, but it had the element of his getting his kicks knowing another man was "using his woman" as he put it.

Incredible turn-on for me, for her, and for good old hubby.

Lana,

Here is an article on the subject of cuckold that explains a little more and touches on the topics you mention.

http://www.thedailybeast.com/article...llectuals.html

Lana,

Here is an article on the subject of cuckold that explains a little more and touches on the topics you mention.

http://www.thedailybeast.com/article...llectuals.html Originally Posted by Elysa Scott

Very interesting article on it.

Explains it much better than I ever could.

Thanks Elysa for clarity - this thread was beginning to drift away.