I discovered Shelly on P411 about 2 montha ago. Here is her profile:
https://www.preferred411.com/P86780
Reading the myprovider ad she evidently toured to Canada early last month. Nothing weird or unusual about that.
We have exchanged several PMs & emails. Even though I'm willing to chance it & TOFTT, I may have blown my opportunity to see her.
Earlier this month I received a rather emotional email from different provider. I sat on it for a day before I replied stating that I took it she didn't want to see me.
Unfortunately I sent it to Shelly by accident. Shelly quickly sent me a reply stating that wasn't the case, it was my schedule that was the limiting factor (true dat) and that she has a life outside the hobby.
I replied quickly apologizing for my fat finger error; however, while I sent that one she sent a 2nd email staring that she doesn't go to guys for dates, they come to her, and that I was, in effect too presumptuious for her.
Because my apology & her 2nd email crossed in the email I let it sit, I was on travel the next 2 weeks anyway. But I did want to get back with her as soon as I could.
However, since I got back my emails and PMs to Shelly requesting a date have gone unanswered. Last night I noted that she's read my PM requesting a date this Friday & she even viewed my P411 profile again, but as of the time I write this she hasn't replied to any.
I could get snarky here but I won't. A girl has to play within her safety zone. Even though I know I'm a clean & safe guy, she's never met me. So be respectful &
careful when you contact her. As the saying goes, you only have one chance to make a good impression.
All indications are that she's real, honest, and a sweet lady. Take a chance, I bet you'll both have a great time. If she'd let me, I'd love to see her.