Pvitt tried to black mail me ...

I was trying to set up a session with one of my regulars whom I see weekly Pvitt. On our last session he did something that made me uncomfortable and I ended the session. Now he is going around trying to slander me. Our previous date was cancelled due to him not respecting our arrangements and trying to ditch my driver. I have a driver whom I employ for long distance dates out of state, and this was an out of state date to a casino (for dinner and some gambling) so I wanted to bring my driver. I explained this to Pvitt and he agreed it was okay for my driver to accompany us, and said that he would love to meet him. my driver agreed that he would disappear into the crowds and go gamble to give us privacy. We brought my driver so i could have my own car incase I had to leave early due to an emergency involving my children. The plan was to follow my driver in my car to the casino, and as soon as my driver was getting on the highway leaving the hotel (after services were provided) Pvitt decided to make an unexpected turn and stop. I felt uneasy about this and slightly irritated as I tried to keep him from ditching my driver. So when he proceeded to order and eat his meal I decided to cancel the date due to his lack of respect to my wishes and protocol. We met up with my driver and I drove off with plans to meet up later or the next day. Later that night at 1:11 am I tried to contact Pvitt and meet up with him at the casino, he told me he was going to his room so I went home and went to bed. At 2:49am Pvitt texts me and says he is going to the casino after all, and then got mad because I didn't show. I had explained to him prior to our date that I could not be out that late due to having to babysit for my roommate the next morning. The next day however he had to catch an early flight and was again unable to meet me. He said for me to keep 30% and return the rest of his donation. So it's been about a week now and I tried to still do something to make the situation more fair for everyone. He then started to make comments and insinuate he was going to be leaving a bad review and making me look bad if I didn't give him a free session. I offered to give him 1 free hr added to the end oh his sessions over an hr for a total of 2 hrs or 600. The date we went on was about 2 hours long from the time I arrived to the time I got out of his car, due to all the mixup and trying to meet up and running back and forth to the hotel. He stated that he felt he got an hrs worth of date so I added another hr for a total of 3 free hrs or 900. Which we had done before, due to a date in which he wasted his allotted time and could not finish. I felt bad for him as we had engaged in conversation the whole time, so i offered to make it up to him. i gave him 2 free hrs. This was still not good enough so he decided to leave me a bad review and then turned around and had my p411 account revoked. Watch out ladies don't let him fool you he will be nice at first till he doesn't get what he wants. This is hazing, slander, black mail, and coercion ... Not safe practices at all. He also tried to say other providers told him they would have done it for free so discretion is not a big priority for him. He used a provider connection he has to Gina at p411 to cancel my account ... Pm me if you want to see the txts ... I have them all from him agreeing to the driver to the negotiations and the threats of a bad review. His first review he was all about me and now he says bad thing cause I would not sleep with him for free like he says his other 3 providers would.
I am just curious how he got another provider too revoke your p411? Have you called Gina and told her your side.
He used a provider he knows that is in real cool with Gina ... Or at least that's what he said when he wanted me to use her to get verified on p411 but I didn't end up needing it ...
~Ze~'s Avatar
  • ~Ze~
  • 09-12-2013, 01:03 PM
1. Learn to use paragraph breaks... REALLY make it easier to read. Most people won't bother reading this because it is hard on the eyes.
2. Having a driver take you across state lines for this reason is VERY dangerous. I would seriously suggest you look into just how much so.
3. Talk to Gina yourself. - If she only has one side to go on, that might be why a decision was made that way.

This whole situation seems like a LOT of it could have been avoided. Poor business practices mixed with a bit of instability on his part.
He is a life long friend who was going to gamble in a legally operating casino ... He was doing nothing wrong what danger do you perceive, I use him on long distance drives cause I am not comfortable with the way people drive on international highways due to being in a previous wreck. Plus it's insurance so I don't get stranded out of state. Plus Pvitt agreed to the terms prior to ever meeting for the session. He also stated he would love to meet him. I tried to speak with Gina and she told me to no longer contact her after I tried to tell her my side of the story, and laughed it off. He has a contact with personal ties to Gina, this is not a safety precaution this is a favor. She called him by his real name in my cancelation email instead of by his screen name.
I offered 3 free hours split amongst 3 sessions of an hour or more. He refused, and wanted a free session. I had told him I was working on a double for him and he tried to get that for free as well. I am a low volume provider so I can not afford to do 3 hr sessions for free. Especially when he got what he came for to begin with ...
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He gave you a grand for 6 hours, then gave you a no review? If I'm not having a good time, I'd hand you a couple of hundred after an hour and keep the rest. When did money start growing on trees?
He is a life long friend who was going to gamble in a legally operating casino ... He was doing nothing wrong what danger do you perceive, I use him on long distance drives cause I am not comfortable with the way people drive on international highways due to being in a previous wreck. Plus it's insurance so I don't get stranded out of state. Plus Pvitt agreed to the terms prior to ever meeting for the session. He also stated he would love to meet him. I tried to speak with Gina and she told me to no longer contact her after I tried to tell her my side of the story, and laughed it off. He has a contact with personal ties to Gina, this is not a safety precaution this is a favor. She called him by his real name in my cancelation email instead of by his screen name. Originally Posted by Lana_kane
I think you're missing Ze's point of why this is VERY dangerous going across state lines - sounds like luck was on your side actually.
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If you had been around the hobby long enough and were familiar with how they operate on P411 you would know that the client's first name is the beginning of his P411 ID.

So by Gina using his first name when speaking to you that in no way is proof that she knows him on a personal level or doing favors for him as you said.

Gina from P411 is a very professional business woman. If she has completely banned you from P411 then you can bet there is a very good and well founded reason.

I.E..... Theft would be a good reason ! When you take a client's money and dash... That is theft !

No matter how you try to slice & dice it !!

I can probly explain this and its a guess was race maby a issue and the other thing is a man with a erection will agree to anything "the most honest moments in a mans life are just. After. Sex". Rocket man
That session he described in that review never happened ... I get no less than 1000 for 4 hrs not for 6 and 300 per hr so 1000 for 6 is a lie ...
I can probly explain this and its a guess was race maby a issue and the other thing is a man with a erection will agree to anything "the most honest moments in a mans life are just. After. Sex". Rocket man Originally Posted by Rocketman3406

No, race is not the issue. We are both white .... He is mad because I refuse to see him for free for 3 hrs
If you had been around the hobby long enough and were familiar with how they operate on P411 you would know that the client's first name is the beginning of his P411 ID.

So by Gina using his first name when speaking to you that in no way is proof that she knows him on a personal level or doing favors for him as you said.

Gina from P411 is a very professional business woman. If she has completely banned you from P411 then you can bet there is a very good and well founded reason.

I.E..... Theft would be a good reason ! When you take a client's money and dash... That is theft !

No matter how you try to slice & dice it !!
Originally Posted by goldcoastbeauty
I have messages with him telling me the provider with ties to Gina and emails from her laughing it off ... Why would she wake up first thing in the morning to deal with that unless she knew already. Then she did not ask questions at all about proof until I called her out on it and laughed it off when I told her my side.
Sorry I haven't been passed around as much as you gcb but you could really shut up you don't even know what happened except what he told you. And considering your financial interests in this your word ain't shit of course you'd say something when you get paid too ...
1200 messages of him saying great things about me and the day I refuse to go see him free he retaliates like this ...