Secret

So I was drinking with one of buddies last night, not my best friend but still a good friend. I really wanted to tell him what I have been doing lately but still couldn't spill the beans. So I was wondering do you keep your hobby life a total secret or does somebody know about it? I wanna tell somebody but I guess I'm not ready yet.

Lie & Deny...be a Colonel Klink...."I hear nothing, I see nothing"....

Hobbying is a lonely profession, but some of us have to do it...

Lie & Deny...be a Colonel Klink...."I hear nothing, I see nothing"....

Hobbying is a lonely profession, but some of us have to do it... Originally Posted by Toyz

+1

kinda like how clark kent must have felt, wanting to tell everyone he was superman. i come here and get to fuck these amazingly beautiful women who are waaaaaay above me in the food chain and i just wanna scream. LOOK AT ME! I AM "FUCK".LORD IF THE PUSSY!
but, seriously if you wanna tell someone, ask whispers for an invite to one of his luncheons or go to a social. most are just regular guys wanting to talk about their experiences and hear about others too. hell, were all just 16 yr old boys in 40 yr old bodies (giggle, giggle, wedgie!!)

Lie & Deny...be a Colonel Klink...."I hear nothing, I see nothing"....

Hobbying is a lonely profession, but some of us have to do it... Originally Posted by Toyz

Thought that was Sgt Schultz? Great show!

That's one of the things about the military....lots of guys do it (especially overseas) and it's not uncommon to go to some of the "houses of ill repute" together with buddies. So no need for secrets there. I guess the civilian world views the "Hobby" a little differently.

The closest i've come is jokingly say "yah its simple, get an escort, cut out all the middle work and just get some pussy. How hard can that be?" never stating that that's what I do regularly.

After my relatively recent divorce my ultraconservative banker looked across his desk while comparing my financial statements pre- and postdivorce and, with a deadpan face, remarked, "ferdburf, it might be cheaper to rent love than to buy it."

The smile I replied with is as much discussion as I care to have about hobby life with my real-life professional friends.

When I was growing up I was the good catholic girl never got in trouble but had my own goofy attitude ..graduated top 20 of my class..ect..ect... So last year I went to visit family up north and while I was at my dad's post having a drink my text messages kept going off and after answering a few my dad asked who I was talking to..I jokingly said... A girls gotta keep up with work even if not in town....He looks at me with a look like huh?what do you do he asks.?..without missing a beat I said Oh ya know I am Austin's Heidi Fleiss ....
Of course he didnt believe me and laughed..but hey if I ever really did get outted..I can always say..Hey I did tell Ya you just thought I was joking

My friends would be concerned I was doing something constantly illegal.

Just my 2 cents, don't tell anyone but then that's me. You never know if your best friends will tell their SO, GF or spouse and then you become the topic of discussion. Might even get to the point where you might be shunned from your circle of friends because of being a bad influence on their husbands or BF. People always talk.

It has already been mentioned here but just deny. We all joined the board with aliases so our RL idenities aren't revealed. At least for me, I like it that way. I don't want SO finding out that I hobby for variety because nothing but drama can come out of that.

Want to tell someone? That's what this board is for...perhaps meet up with some other legs at a strip club if you need to talk about it.

My personal policy is never to tell anyone...you really don't know what their reaction would be or what things could happen in the future that would make you regret the temporary fun of confession.

All my friends know what I do and they have done some of their own as well. Both my parents know and are cool about it. My moms new husband helped build the Mustang Ranch in Nevada.

Keep it to yourself.. last thing you want is all your friends talking to all our ladie friends about your secret lovers

I dont volunteer information, but if Im asked directly than I am honest. I dont do anything that I regret............if I do regret it than I do it again so I can get it right the second time.



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