The perfect provider......

What would that be to you?

From what I gather from the posts I read around the boards....

#1. No Drama
ie., she knows how to be discrete and keep things on an acceptable level of "friendliness"

#2. Full Menu
This goes without saying, some of you gents seem to want everything available from every girl. Correct me if I'm wrong.
Of course ya'll know this isn't possible but play along.....

#3. Full disclosure
You don't want to have to search more than a few minutes to find out if she's A. real, B. your type, C. In your price range, and D. Available to you.....

#4. Drop Dead Gorgeous
Need I explain this one?

#5. New to the biz.
Now no offense, but some of you gents seem to want only the new, untried, maybe I can convince her to join this site type of gal........
I like to refer to these gents as the explorer hobbyists, the ones who freely admit they like to try every new piece of tail they come across and who epitomize this hobby of ours.

Afterall gentlemen, isn't that what this all is about?
A hobby created by and for the enjoyment of gentlemen.
True, it is a means of livelihood for the ladies,
but basically it is an outlet for the gentlemen to explore all of their sexual fantasies and desires without all of the usual entrapments that come with your usual FWB or SO relationship.

Without you gentlemen, the "hobby" would not be what it is.

And on the flipside.
Without the Excellent providers who you gentlemen enjoy spending time with, and who give you those evenings or nights filled with passion or intimacy that you cannot find elsewhere, the ones who you can say anything to and know it goes no further.
This hobby would be nothing.


So in this time of Thanksgiving lets give thanks to the hobby and the women who make it possible.
And the gentlemen who make us want to be there for you.

PS.
Double posted because not many folks venture into the Pittsburgh discussion areas.
Not that I blame them, it is kind of sparse in there....
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So in this time of Thanksgiving lets give thanks to the hobby and the women who make it possible.
And the gentlemen who make us want to be there for you. Originally Posted by sexymaid_69
This is my first Thanksgiving after finding the ECCIE community and I have to give a big thumbs up over the above quote. I am VERY thankful that there are some really wonderful ladies who have made my time here very enjoyable. And they do that mostly by just LIKING to be with us for some sexy play time.
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I am very thankful for this site overall. Lots of nice folks all the way around.

As for the perfect lady for me...well it is many of the things you touch on. But if I had to choose one thing above all I would say it is that they enjoy their time with me as much as I enjoy it. Last thing I want is a lady that really doesn't want to be there but needs the money.
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Three feet tall, no teeth, and a flat head you can sit a beer on...
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Three feet tall, no teeth, and a flat head you can sit a beer on... Originally Posted by Wakeuр
Is this what you're looking for?

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What would that be to you?

From what I gather from the posts I read around the boards....

#1. No Drama

#2. Full Menu

#3. Full disclosure

#4. Drop Dead Gorgeous

#5. New to the biz.
Originally Posted by sexymaid_69
As a guy, here's my top 5 criteria for the "perfect" provider:

1) Hotness factor (Drop Dead Gorgeous). Obviously, this is subjective for each guy, but we all want our version of the hot chick. If I want to see a girl, her looks will be the first thing I consider as it is the door opener for me. Hotness not only takes into account her physical attributes, but age also factors into the equation. On a 1 to 10 scale with everything being equal, I more times than naught will go for the younger girl as it factors into the hotness for me. I'm not knocking the older ladies-- see below.

2) Menu is the next factor for me. If she is Playmate of the Month material but has a limited menu or upsells for "extras", I will more often pass or go for an equally hot girl who offers more. To be honest, the perfect provider would be one who offers everything on the menu-- DFK, MSOG, Greek, etc in an all inclusive price structure-- which leads to my next criteria.

3) Donation value. In a perfect world, it would be free, but then that wouldn't be the hobby world, so the next best thing to consider is value. As mentioned earlier, a menu that is all inclusive is best. Upselling for extras turns what should be a sensual encounter into a business encounter. This in turn ruins the experience. A savvy provider knows how to structure her donation rates. There should be discounts for longer appointments. Providers who simply double their hourly rate just don't get it. For example a 250/ hour rate should be 400 for 2 hours and 600 for 3. The more time a guy spends the less he should pay. Also, a smart provider will research the market. 250/ hour in one city may not be the going rate in another city. Finally, a really progressive provider will offer "clock free" dates (within a reasonable time period) at one flat rate (best yet if she follows the open menu rule).

4) Experience factor cuts both ways for me based on my mood. Sometimes, I may want the young, inexperienced flavor of the moment. At other times, I may want to spend time with a more mature/experienced lady as she knows who to perform. I guess I have two extremes-- the barely legal-early 20s type new to the game or just hot and young. The second extreme is the late 30 to mid 40s MILFs who know how to read a man and make love or just flat out screw.

5) Kink factor. This factor is kinda tied to menu and experience. With this factor, I'm looking for a lady who is willing to explore a variety of experiences-- whether she has done them or not. These are the adventurous girls who like to role play or share fantasies.

When I research providers, I factor in all of these and come up with a subjective equation to decide on who I want to see.
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Very well said indead.
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do you get along
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Well, every man keeps searching for the perfect girl, but the perfect girl is not real.

. . . And a real girl is not perfect. Sometimes, you find one who is close and if she's in the mood, you'd better fasten your seat-belt!

Good observations. I would add only one thing....quality of the incall. Must be nice, clean, discreet, with off street parking