Thoughts on Dominatrix???

ChocolateChipCharlie's Avatar
Hi all, I have always been curious about the whole Dominatrix thing and Doms in general. I can’t imagine ever being wrapped in plastic, had pain inflicted like ball kicking, sounding, electrocution or anything like that. Guys, help me understand why would this ever turn you on?? Ladies, does doing this to men ever turn you on?? I had a minor session with a very special lady on this group and she handcuffed me to a table and blindfolded me and the whole time I was thinking I must be crazy for allowing this and what if the house catches on fire how am I going to get out lol...
I have been to one I like been under someone's control I ended up getting bent over and she used a strapon on me I loved it once I got use to it some other things she made me do also
Having a fetish is fine - I love high heels. Go for it dude and it is your fantasy so worship the Dom and set your limits
bustybabygirl's Avatar
I’m obviously not on the dominant end of the spectrum. I am, however, well versed and quite aware of the different perspectives from both sides of the slash (D/s) in a large variety of dynamics.

From my point of view, many individuals want to experiment. In most cases, they aren’t even sure what specific activities they want to try, they just want to please, be pleased, and try something new. People in this demographic are not interested in pain or degradation. What many don’t realize is that there are so many ways to explore without pain & degradation, and that being kinky doesn’t mean that you have to indulge in Power Exchange. I like to introduce these people to the vast and expansive category of sensory play.

I’d be happy to discuss with you Charlie. Or any of my established friends.
I’m obviously not on the dominant end of the spectrum. I am, however, well versed and quite aware of the different perspectives from both sides of the slash (D/s) in a large variety of dynamics.

From my point of view, many individuals want to experiment. In most cases, they aren’t even sure what specific activities they want to try, they just want to please, be pleased, and try something new. People in this demographic are not interested in pain or degradation. What many don’t realize is that there are so many ways to explore without pain & degradation, and that being kinky doesn’t mean that you have to indulge in Power Exchange. I like to introduce these people to the vast and expansive category of sensory play.

I’d be happy to discuss with you Charlie. Or any of my established friends. Originally Posted by bustybabygirl
Awesome explanation
ChocolateChipCharlie's Avatar
I’m obviously not on the dominant end of the spectrum. I am, however, well versed and quite aware of the different perspectives from both sides of the slash (D/s) in a large variety of dynamics.

From my point of view, many individuals want to experiment. In most cases, they aren’t even sure what specific activities they want to try, they just want to please, be pleased, and try something new. People in this demographic are not interested in pain or degradation. What many don’t realize is that there are so many ways to explore without pain & degradation, and that being kinky doesn’t mean that you have to indulge in Power Exchange. I like to introduce these people to the vast and expansive category of sensory play.

I’d be happy to discuss with you Charlie. Or any of my established friends. Originally Posted by bustybabygirl
Sounds interesting BBG. We will have to chat for sure.
One of the local Dom should set up a training session for two or three submissive to train at once I'm sure it would be fun especially if one wanted to try bi
jonboy52's Avatar
Until you try being bound, having your balls stretched and prostate pounding, while being milked; you may not be able to compare that orgasm to any other.
That sounds like you enjoyed it I have cum from strapon play was different
Randilyn's Avatar
whole time I was thinking I must be crazy for allowing this and what if the house catches on fire how am I going to get out lol... Originally Posted by ChocolateChipCharlie
OMG!!! imagine ............... !!!!
So any Dominatrix thinking about starting a small group session to train submissive gentlemen
bustybabygirl's Avatar
For those who don’t already know...

Anneke Van Buren is a Domme.
And Kira has a bunch of experience as well.
jonboy52's Avatar
Yes, Kira does quite nicely "filling" requests 😉
  • DCGuy
  • 03-06-2019, 03:07 PM
OMG!!! imagine ............... !!!! Originally Posted by Randilyn
There was a guy dressed in full drag that died from a heart attack or stroke in the adult theater in Syracuse in Nov or Dec 2018.
hittingcoach's Avatar
Anneke does a very nice sensual dom session and would be a great intro for you.