I'm just guessing here, but I think you're having a hard time getting guys on here to see you because of a few things. First, there seems to be drama with you on here. Whether that is the case or not, it seems that way. Last thing guys on here want is drama. Second, Rawdog was with you. Not exactly a ringing endorsement. Third, no ads. Who knows where you are and when you'll be there. Also, "alerts" like this thread I put a link to don't help the perception of drama.
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1124209
Hopefully, if all of this is misunderstandings, you can get a few guys on here and show them a good time and they'll put up reviews and clear your reputation. I hope so.
Just put up an ad and offer a "review special" to get a couple of reviews under your showcase and it'll all work out.