Hair Trigger

Like a great many men, I have a bit of a "hair trigger". This is why I always look for msog sessions. I am almost always good for round two, sometimes with greater stamina, sometimes not. I have looked into Nuru, but I have my doubts. I have thought about posting an ISO ad, but I thought I would start here. Is the key finding a woman with the right "talent", patience and or physical qualities? I have always been ultra sensitive down there, so this doesn't seem to be a symptom of aging. I am not looking for an unrealistic porn-quality stamina, just breaking the three minute barrier would be nice. Are there products out there that would help? I have considered Viagra even though my problem is the fall, not the rise.

Irish moss (gracilaria) and horny goat weed (epimedium) may be useful. But some may say that they are just yard remedies and not real medicine.

Also, I totally agree with Kay about shifting the focus from lots of "pops" in one session to seeking a friend who's highly skilled when it comes to edging.

I have not done the "rubbing one out" pregame method, although I have considered it. First of all, after you do that, why go out? Secondly, the time that passes from then to shower to drive to intros to getting to it again is so great that I am back in stage one mode aka "hair trigger" with the exception that there might not be a round two available.
I am glad to see ladies respond, but disappointed not to hear from the other side of the aisle. C'mon guys, I know I am not the only one. Edging sounds like the kind of thing I am looking for. Give me more ideas. I thought there would be a Nuru fan to respond. I want to get better.

I'm going to disappoint you.. yeah, I'm a guy who is responding, but I can not relate to your experience.. a hair trigger would not be something I would consider a problem!

I guess my first question would be... how much warning do you have between almost too late and..... too late?

Mr. Tran, always enjoy your posts. The grass is always greener..., sir.

Grace, it isn't long, a second or two.

There are condoms that numb you a bit to last longer. You can find them in many drugstores. I would also look into "edging"..most providers understand what this is so you could likely post an ISO.

i'm confused.
are you looking for someone or something that can help delay your initial orgasm and/or ejaculation?

or someone or something that can help you maintain an erection after your initial orgasm and/or ejaculation?

or are you looking for increased "stamina"? how do you define it?
dictionary.com says "enduring energy, strength, and resilience".
could mean that you can stay hard and engage in sexual activities for a long time.


my suggestion - search for someone who takes her time and is committed to providing pleasure and delites. not someone who is "cum bum! thanks for the benjamum."

dont know your drive zone, but Loving Kayla in southern mcKinney advertises in helping out guys w/ similar conditions.
there are other women who will take the time.

good luck in your search for longer lasting delites!!

I've had pretty good success in working with clients that have premature ejaculation. I have several tricks (pun not intended) that have really helped. Some involve homework on the guys part. Some men have lived their entire life barely even being able to be touched without exploding, even with their spouses. It takes patience and generally doesn't happen in the first visit. It's usually something that's been a lifetime issue and it likely won't be fixed over night.

... just breaking the three minute barrier would be nice. Are there products out there that would help? I have considered Viagra even though my problem is the fall, not the rise. Originally Posted by mmcqtx

The good news is there are many products and techniques that will help. The flip-side is that there are many causes and not all of them physiological. Some men become hyper-excitable when in the presence of 'forbidden fruit'--a lady that never thought they could be with, a secret lover, etc. In most of those cases, as has been suggested before, the right lady with the right technique can help. Just be honest with her upfront and tell her what's up.

My own recommendation is to steer clear of the herbal remedies, the testosterone, and the chemical fixes. We know from science and experience those are short term solutions that (usually) have detrimental side effects. Instead, add an hour to your typical session, pay for GFE, and tell your 'girlfriend' what you need help with. And then if she helps, tip her nicely. You'll still be out less than paying for all the voodoo tonic.

All the best.

Get a fleshlight they are marketed as a stamina builder. Originally Posted by sit on my face

I got some property to sell you that I'm marketing as beach-front.

Question: Do you really only have a seconds between almost and too late?

There are condoms that numb you a bit to last longer. You can find them in many drugstores. Originally Posted by Maggie_May

That is something I need to look into. Anyone have a name on these?


"i'm confused. are you looking for someone or something that can help delay your initial orgasm and/or ejaculation?"

My main complaint is a lack of intercourse because if attempted as round one the time would be under a minute. In round two while I usually last longer, the strength of the erection is not as great and sometimes I have trouble with penetration and/or maintaining enough power in the erection. When this fails, I can be finished off orally, so I am not sure if it is a matter of a sensitive provider, my own fault for not verbalizing exactly what I need, or training the soldier in a more efficient manner.

Question: Do you really only have a seconds between almost and too late? Originally Posted by LoveToPlease2016

I don't carry a stopwatch, but yes, at most a couple of seconds.