Pain for pleasure

So I have been really interested in kink. More so in the pain aspect of it. I always watch kinky porn and it is a turn on but nothing gets me more riled up then watching a girl take a paddle to the ass and her enjoying the pain. I have always wanted to get into these type of activities but never really knew how to get started. I know with these type of activities you have to be really careful not to hurt the other person. I want to make sure that I'm doing it right so that both of us can have a good time.

So with that being said are there any ladies out there that could help me to learn the aspect of pain for pleasure so I can make sure I am doing it the right way.

So I have been really interested in kink. More so in the pain aspect of it. I always watch kinky porn and it is a turn on but nothing gets me more riled up then watching a girl take a paddle to the ass and her enjoying the pain. I have always wanted to get into these type of activities but never really knew how to get started. I know with these type of activities you have to be really careful not to hurt the other person. I want to make sure that I'm doing it right so that both of us can have a good time.

So with that being said are there any ladies out there that could help me to learn the aspect of pain for pleasure so I can make sure I am doing it the right way. Originally Posted by bustitbig

hello! I have some experience perhaps I can be helpful to you

It's a process.

When this forum was new, there were several WONDERFUL "how to" topics and you can do a search.

Plus, there are a few reading lists that are helpful as well.

When I got involved in this world, I attended "Kink Kollege" for a few years in Chicago.

Also, attended a few Beyond Vanilla's in Dallas as well.

I've taken some classes plus my clients have probably taught me more than anything else.

So if you're curious, and you have a client base that is wanting to experience such activities, start a dialogue!!!

Read and read some more.

There is just a ton of free information but also, some great books.

Don't have a lot of time right now to find those topics right now but good luck to you!!!

And go back to the beginnings of this forum. You're going to see some really wonderful topics!!!

Elisabeth

There are few things sexier than a sadistic woman who gets off on "dishing it out"!

There are few things sexier than a sadistic woman who gets off on "dishing it out"! Originally Posted by Naughtyandbad

You are probably right . But iv yet to see anything sexier than a sadistic women . 🤕 I absolutely thrive on a Sadistic woman . When I'm under a powerful women's spell , I feel broken and free at the same time .

You need to be caged ordered and beaten.