Provider’s thoughts on DATO

Just curious (I’m sure it’s been asked before but...) I’d like to know how our lovely ladies feel about giving and/or receiving.

I guess you could say im stingy. No giving but definitely like recieving lol

I love it receiving but I do not provide it. If it was a regular I would consider it

I suspect many ladies feel the same way. For me to do it on a girl I just have to be confident that she’s clean. I’d say I include the anus in about 25% of my pussy-eating expeditions. It's right there. The skin separating the vulva and the anus isn’t like the Great Plains. The idea that someone would smush their face as deep as possible into a vagina, but absolutely draw the line at the anus, is ridiculous. It's like someone telling you how much they adore the German countryside but they would never, ever, set foot in Austria. Not very many women are into going down on a guy's ass. Getting rimmed is kind of a vulnerability, and guys are more often comfortable in a more dominant role. There's also the ick factor. Dudes aren’t always the most hygienic. Then there's the perception thing. I have never asked a woman to do it, though I would certainly accept if she was into it.

I'm just the opposite of previous posters. ABSOLUTELY do not touch my ass period.

However, I'm all about TUMA and Rusty Trombone

not a provider but I love giving much more than receiving.

milan kundera's ode to the female asshole seems appropriate:

"the ass hole is the miraculous focal point for all the nuclear energy of nakedness. The vulva portal is important, of course (of course, who would deny that?), but too officially important, a registered site, classified, documented, explicated, examined, experimented on, watched, sung, celebrated. Vulva: noisy crossroads where all of chattering humankind meets, a tunnel the generations file through. Only the gullible believe in the intimacy of that site, the most public site of all. The only site that is truly intimate, whose taboo even pornographic films respect, is the hole of the ass, the supreme portal; supreme because it is the most mysterious, the most secret."

Alaine—is it a trust thing or are you just not a fan of the sensation/idea? On a side note, that rusty trombone technique (only ever happened once) is what got me chasing this particular kink. I used to be a “don’t touch my asshole” kind of guy. I’m still exit only, but love a good rim.

You can worship my pretty ass in anyway you wish..except for entering in. Lol
I especially love having an oily butt massage

Ahh...very inviting DallasRain, but would you worship mine?

Lol well i do do oily butt massages on my men..no rimming. But something close

Alaine—is it a trust thing or are you just not a fan of the sensation/idea? On a side note, that rusty trombone technique (only ever happened once) is what got me chasing this particular kink. I used to be a “don’t touch my asshole” kind of guy. I’m still exit only, but love a good rim. Originally Posted by kingleonxxx

NOT sure...I think I'm just a freak of nature. My pleasure in the RT/TUMA/ BBBJNQNS is a CONTROL thing for sure.

My pleasure is in picking guys up off the floor and/or pulling them off the ceiling.

I'm sure my insecurities go back to my medical background. You might think that it would be just the opposite.

ANYONE that has seen me will tell you that I'm a bit of a hygiene freak...but not obsessive compulsive about it. If the temp is above 60 and you choose NOT to shower...expect a Nurse "bed bath"...YMMV.... I won't put my own health at risk for your pleasure or the almighty dollar.

Alaine is the only reason I'd enjoy turning 40 years old.

Very well said!