Are blowjobs cheating?

Are blowjobs considered cheating?

Ask your SO and see what they say...

Or let your SO give other guys blow jobs and see if you have an issue with it. That should set the definition for you.

No. You can give as many as you like.

Did you miss the 90's?

Not if your old lady is suckin off Bill Clinton

Thanks for the thought provoking, heart felt answers!

if my SO (that I dont have so Im basing this off past) received , that's fine. But giving....hell no.

If you do something that you cannot share openly with your SO...or will make her feel betrayed after you tell her, it is cheating/lying. How did you not know this basic etiquette of human relationship?

I once caught my brother getting bj from a gal who wasn't his wife. He told me...

"Eatin' Ain't Cheatin'"

When Prez Clinton declared BJs to be "Not a sexual relation" I gleefully pointed this out to my wife. She helped me understand that the fact was, if any part of a woman touched shy part of me - that was it. So much for the UCMJ "any penetration" rule.

Like everything else in the world it's YNMV

this cant be a serious question?? like the others said, ask your wife. of course bjs are cheating. I would bet that most wives would consider being on the site cheating....I know mine would.

If you do something that you cannot share openly with your SO...or will make her feel betrayed after you tell her, it is cheating/lying. Originally Posted by samantha thom

Well this gives me a bit of pause... so every time I have find the evidence of secret shopping trip or new shoe binge I can call it cheating?

My feelings on the cheating or not topic require more information;
Is this a blowjob from a secret girlfriend or someone you have or are building a long running relationship with? If yes then yeah I would call it cheating.
If it is just a release then I would call it masturbation level 100; in the end it is virtually the same result just requires an extra person or two. I doubt anyone feels the need to come clean to the SO about the tug-o-war session they had to porn.

---> Of course this is just the logic of a guy on an escort board so real world results may vary

if my SO (that I dont have so Im basing this off past) received , that's fine. But giving....hell no. Originally Posted by Eva Damita

If he received a mouth STD and passed it on to you unknowingly from that one single cheating BJ, would it still be fine and permissable? Or would you only then be upset.

One the same coin if your man ate out a chick only and did DATY would you consider that cheating? Or is it just a male female thing....


I myself only consider it cheating if she swallows. Lol But I don't cheat either.

Well I wouldn't mind my SO getting a good head job, but I am not with her giving one. I was just wondering if some of ladies thought the same way. A blowjob means nothing apart from getting a temporary release.