Anal/ Age

I seem to find out in "the real world" that older men are put off on the topic of anal sex- saying "Oh thats a exit only" and the guys younger then 45 are more into it...the younger they are the more in to it they can be, including dato. Is this because its popular in the porn now a days?

Anyone out there have a opinion on this?

sorry if its been discussed alot already..ive been offline a lot over the past 2 years.

I'm guessing the frequency of anal sex in mainstream porn has a lot to do with destigmatizing it.

In the 80's (yes, I'm old enough to remember that decade) anal sex was rare and only a couple of actresses would partake. Now, pretty much every adult actress has to do it.

For me, it's something I enjoy occasionally with the right lady but isn't a must have/dealbreaker by any means.

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^^^^this explains it well Originally Posted by maxgame2

Hmm... my first anal experiences were in the 80's. I was bartending and a birthday girl wanted me to do it for her birthday. I was not much of a porn watcher then an Im not sure where she got hte idea but she really wanted it. and I have to say I really did enjoy it. Seems the paper magazines had alot depicted then as well so the influence was around alot more than I see now. (om 51 and love it is SHE is into it and it gets her off...

It is a nice alternative activity... especially if the cheeks have a nice pink glow.

I would be in that over 45 range & am more open now to anal in all variants than when I was younger. It took a while to get comfortable receiving more than giving.

You are probably correct that the frequency of anal in porn in the last decade has made it more mainstream & younger people more willing to try.

Over 60 here and love occasionally experiencing the role reversal mind fuck of being the receptive one for a lady who enjoys wielding a strap-on. It feels good physically when done properly, and the mental side of it can be a real kick.

Yummy Marie is very good at this, and at very sensual Domme/sub in general--and many other things for that matter.

74 here and Greek is on my to do list, I got the full Golden showers today and it was the most erotic thing I have done. Left on my list is Greek, lactation and fisting.

I'm below 45 (barely) and my interest in anal stems from the S&M/B&D aspect of things. Didn't encounter or appreciate receptive anal until my mid-20s, though performing anal/DATO was something I encountered in high school.

So I suppose the 80s and 90s had something to do with it.

I'm 47 and i can honestly say Anal sex has been a fave of mine since the 80's. I have steadily watched Anal porn since then and have seen it gain more popularity.

i do know that lots of guys don't partake...it's about 3 out of 10 men..ladies correct me if I'm wrong.

The hobby allows me to act out my anal fantasies as you can research which ladies truly enjoy it and which ones do it just for the extra donation.

In closing to each his own..but show me an anal whore and I'll be knocking on her door (back door) just as soon as I can.

My first anal experience was in the 70's. My wife was very adventurous and analingus was a routine part of sex. Fingers were next. Then, in about 1981 her little pussy vibrator was introduced to me . . . gently.

Multiple wives later it has only gotten better. I give as good as I get I guess you could say.

Funny how some enthusiastic TUHA/TUMA seems to dissolve inhibitions

With maturity (of sorts) I've let go of a lot of hangs ups having gone through puberty and teens in the rural south in the 80s. "Gay this." "Fag that." Now, I just want to enjoy what feels good and anal play on me and on the lady definitely does. He who denies themselves the pleasure of a prostate orgasm is missing out on an supremely intense pleasure.

Perhaps one reason younger men may seem more open is that homosexuality is a bit more mainstream these days. Not that anal play makes one a homosexual, butt there is less of a stigma attached.

Yeah, and porn too.

I once was a dirty boy and now I'm a dirty man (30's). I enjoy burying my face/tongue in the backdoor!

I dunno,there was plenty of anal in porn back in the day.
ISTR 'insatiable' having a 5 guy closing scene, and even parts of 'deep throat' had some kink to it

Personally the first time i tried would have been circa 1981, but inexperience led to failure.
In 1988 i met a girl who grabbed my cock and stuffed in her ass, ahh, fond memories

I do think more younger women are into it now, as most of the women who were really into it were at least in their late 30's, so maybe that is porn related

48 here and anal has been something I've dabbled in for at least 15 years (in and out of the hobby). I'm sure the prevalence of it in porn has helped destigmatize it but anal has been in porn at least at the magazine level for like forever.