Greek prep

Gotta questions for the ladies who offer Greek. What is some advice for a lady who usually doesn't offer Greek and is a tad concerned about "size"? Any suggestions on lube, lubing up both parties, etc. Also, what can a guy do to help prepare. I am trying to coax a provider to do Greek with me. I've got her to agree to at least give it a try. BTW, I'm not the biggest or thickest guy in the world.

start small, small toy or your fingers will work, I prefer toys, plenty of lube, maybe have a few different kinds to use, find one she likes. I also suggest warming a toy/dildo, you can do this by running or soaking in warm water, some places you can find ones that heat up on their own. Usually the warmer the better. It will help relax muscles. And have a bigger toy on hand maybe depends on the guys size. Plus don't forget to clean before hand!

I would also suggest that she run to the drug store and pick up a Fleet enema kit.

Enemas are required imo and i can agree with the fingers first. Plus ive found if you use a toy bigger than the cock that will do the fucking before its accually alot better.

While you are going down on her, do some rimming and then poke a smaller finger in and inch or so. good way to start. If you're willing to lick her ass hole she might be more persuaded to let you poke it.
A porn actress told me once about preparing for a scene with well hung black actor. She did a juice diet for about 3 days, enemas 2 or 3 times, and used progressively bigger toys working toward the day. She took him like a champ but said she was still nervous anyway. I saw the vid and you could definitely see the concern on her face for the first minute or so of penetration.

What's the best lube? Was going to simply get some KY.

Fleet Enemas are better than nothing, but to do it right, look at the variety of products out there with bags or the ones that attach to the shower. The latter is easiest to use and pack around if necessary. Give yourself PLENTY of time to void....usually at least a half hour after. Well worth the time and effort.

I got one of those plugs that start off small and expands thickness and you can put your finger inside it -LOVE IT- IT got me GREEK FRIENDLY! I also suggest a lube that has a thickness to it-or baby oil jelly works great-haven't found a thick lube I like for greek,unfortunately.

In my civilian experience, take your time. Lots of DATY and finger play, wait till she gets comfortable with one finger in deep, start working on two. I have found that [considering my umm modest dimensions] that once a woman can comfortably take two fingers in deep, she is ready. I like to take several different days to work up to it.

I have found that the best position I have found is cowgirl, let her be in control of depth and speed. When she is ready to be a porn star, take her from behind. I have also found that a woman's insides need to kind of arrange themselves for the different entry point, so be easy on that first entry, once she is adjusted you can usually not worry.

Since you will be playing safe, try not to get all wound about the poop thing, it will only make her nervous. Shit happens, as they say. If it does, don't freak out. Laugh and get a warm washcloth. Don't make her first venture into the greek world a downer

A woman has to really relax and dilate herself to be successful. I have found that after you pull out,. giving her ass cheeks a sexy little squeeze together will help her body remember that hey, my ass should be shut now and prevent any, well, you know. Now the porn movies like all that gaping action, but as mentioned,they prepare for days.

I am jealous. Taking a woman's Greek cherry can be fun. One of my absolute fondest sexual memories is a of a slightly overweight, somewhat plain younger woman after weeks of careful training, leaning down from the cowgirl position and whispering in my ear "do you want to fuck me in the ass?"

"why yes I do, my dear, yes I do"

Use a silicon based lube, they last a lot longer, fingers are okay, but don't twist. just straight in and out. You're correct, the mental aspect of greek is a big part of it.

Here's a question for you. How long of a session are you planning for this? If it's an hour, you may have to spend 30-45 minutes getting her relaxed & ready. Don't make her ass the focus of the session. Work in rimming & finger/toy play into your DATY, and let her get used to feeling orgasms while being anally penetrated & played with.

A variety of toys is helpful. One, which I think is really helpful is a hollow dildo, the size of a dick. It gives her the size, but allows her to squeeze her muscles without the discomfort of a solid toy. Very important for beginners. They all want to squeeze down, especially if they're being stimulated elsewhere.

I'd prefer they use an enema before play, but that's up to you & her. The Fleet enema is fine for most types of anal play. I watch what I eat before hand, use the enema, refill it with warm water & do it again. The heavy duty, half-gallon, in-the-shower enema bag is probably only necessary for porn-type anal play. if you plan on doing an anal GB, ATM, asscum eating (felching?), or any hardcore anal activities. But for this, a 6 oz. enema will work fine.

As far as lubes, look around. There are numbing lubes (which IMO take the pleasure away), lubes primarily for anal, and lubes depending on the toys. KY works, just keep your lube handy & there's never too much lube.

Many great comments here, and I would add that so long as this provider is actually discussing the matter with you, it will happen. You only have one "first" time, so the biggest concern is not to make it unpleasant for her. If she is someone you see regularly, don't make her feel like "this time we're trying Greek". You talking about it, and that's almost like foreplay. She'll get more and more comfortable. Nest session, a finger, maybe two. Next session, a toy or two.

And I am in definite agreement with pssymnchr2...if you rim her (and she likes it), that can make her much more likely to explore other forms of anal play. But the mental factor is the biggest thing. Don't make her feel pressured. Have fun!

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The most important thing is to relax and breath.....I don't have use no lub....but not every women can take it like that......Dont force it ...is key go slow and easy....later u can beat it up....

u dont want a silicone based lube in my experience it stays for to long and coats to thick id do a water based and gun oil is always my go to for greek it doesnt get tacky or sticky and has staying power during the deed