The Appeal of Gang Bang

I saw a post about organizing a gang bang. Call me boring, clueless, uptight, vanilla or whatever you want. But I'm really curious what the appeal is to men and women? Sometimes when I watch porn, I run into gang bang scene...I would watch a little and change the channel. If gang bang appeals to you, please enlighten me what is it that excites you about it and makes you want to participate. I personally don't have any interest in it.

Not interested so can't explain the why some are.

It has interested me from afar. I had a threesome once with two straight doods like 13+ years ago. It was awesome!!!!! Just a night when all the stars were aligned. I wasn't compensated and neither were my boyfriend. Just two guys i knew from seeing them around. Totally random but damn was it good!

I ended up feeling way different than I thought I would. Me being me, I figured my ego would take a hit and I'd end up feeing negative about it overall. But actually it was the total opposite!! I felt empowered and enlightened and the sexiest I had ever felt in my life. I wonder if the lady in a gb feels like that too??

That being said, I'm not rushing out volunteering for them either.....But I can see the appeal.

IMO, just like the natural process of nature, males compete and the strongest one gets to seed the female only we humans are much more civilized, civilized sounds a little stupid doesn't it in this case? We're civilized enough to stand in line and fuck her when it's our turn. We are the only species that have sex because we enjoy it, not just to procreate.

I'm intrigued by it, but would never do it. Would open myself up to humiliation, which happens anyway when it's just me and a provider.

It has interested me from afar. I had a threesome once with two straight doods like 13+ years ago. It was awesome!!!!! Just a night when all the stars were aligned. I wasn't compensated and neither were my boyfriend. Just two guys i knew from seeing them around. Totally random but damn was it good!

I ended up feeling way different than I thought I would. Me being me, I figured my ego would take a hit and I'd end up feeing negative about it overall. But actually it was the total opposite!! I felt empowered and enlightened and the sexiest I had ever felt in my life. I wonder if the lady in a gb feels like that too??

That being said, I'm not rushing out volunteering for them either.....But I can see the appeal. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Oh, I'm so jealous that you had an awesome 3some experience. I tried 3some once years and years ago with 2 guy friends who were not my boyfriends...very similar to your situation...but it was 'so-so'. I haven't been interested since.
But back to the GB, I can understand maybe the lady likes a lot of attention from a lot of guys and she's maybe a submissive type? But...mechanically and physically, wouldn't it hurt, sore, and kinda boring after a while..especially if there are a lot of guys (10 for example) like the other GB post mentioned?
I can watch a lot of weird things and enjoy...but to experience it? Perhaps not!

Is pullin' a train the same as a gang bang, or is it different in that there's a line instead of a cluster fuck of dudes beatin the meat while a coupla 3 other dudes be stuffin'? I mean the train was always more discrete, not a buncha junk swingin', just a nod signifying "you're up, dude" as you pass in the hallway fully dressed but maybe re-zippin' and back to the party. I mean I went to a party in freakin high school one time where the girl who sat next to me in English Lit was doing the ass on the sink for real and none of the other girls even knew till a few days later some idiot let it out. Weren't a bunch of dudes walkin around poundin' it while they waited, though...

Personally I don't get the whole humiliation aspect of the gang bang, much less the whole cum bucket approach to sex. I mean I understand it from an asshole misogynistic frat boy point of view, but that doesn't mean I condone it. Sex is performance art at it's finest, best painted by lovers or those who pretend to be such, not a public wank and DNA dump. Just my .02, tho. Wimmin want to feel loved and like they got all the attention they can stand need to have their pussies eaten until they beg for it to stop then get some more. More than one way to wear out a cat, eh, without throwing a block party.

More of a fantasy for me than reality. I like watching it on Porn, but probably would not ever participate in an actual GB. I don't think I am that interested in taking sloppy seconds, thirds or whatever!!! Also, I would think the girl probably has some kind of "issue or issues" to want to participate in such a act. Not knocking what others enjoy just my perception!!! I could be totally wrong. I think the facination for guys is they are really dominating a woman during a GB. That is what my facination is with it when I watch a GB on Porn!!!

You're right about the train phildo, I remember that's what is was called back in high school, and then when everyone was done, one of the girls would get a bottle of Coca Cola to douche out the girl who got banged. Yea, it was more fun watching all the BS going on.

No appeal for me, even watching it on porn. As was said, women fantasize about being with 2 maybe more men, and men fantasize being with 2 or more women, it's only natural.

I like watching it on Porn, but probably would not ever participate in an actual GB. Originally Posted by b2pop

I enjoy watching them, too, but also doubt that I could participate.

I don't think I am that interested in taking sloppy seconds, thirds or whatever!!

Not for this reason, though. I think performance anxiety might be an issue, and there would be a fear of not measuring up (in more ways than one) with the "competition." Hell, I get a little anxious just wondering how I compare to an escorts other one-on-one clients.

As far as the porn goes, I do not enjoy the domination, degradation, even misogyny, that typifies a lot of gangbangs. I look for scenes where the woman enjoys the experience, or views it as a challenge or a test of her boundaries. It's one thing for a woman to do it because she views herself as a worthless slut, good for nothing except being used as a semen depository for countless men; it's a whole 'nuther thing when a woman does it out of a sense of desire or adventure.

I marvel that there are women who will do such things, who are that uninhibited and sexual, and I remain incredulous, when I think about it, that so many will do so and have their activities recorded for posterity and made commercially available. I've never known anyone like that, and I simultaneously wish I could and shrink (yep, another pun) at the thought that one of me wouldn't be nearly enough!

samantha, thx for starting this thread. multiple partner sex is not much discussed in her. might want to ask this in the Another Realm forum for a different set of views.

It has interested me from afar. I had a threesome once with two straight doods like 13+ years ago. It was awesome!!!!! ... Totally random but damn was it good!

I ended up feeling way different than I thought I would. ... I felt empowered and enlightened and the sexiest I had ever felt in my life. I wonder if the lady in a gb feels like that too??

That being said, I'm not rushing out volunteering for them either.....But I can see the appeal. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

THN, i'm glad that the experience was deliteful. seriously!
when people having sex experience a great time and feel good about giving a great experience to others, YEAH!! i've heard of many threesomes where one or more got jealous or pissed or hurt or more. not good.

and like you said, if the experience is great, it can do a lot for the ego and your self image.
from my point of view, if what i do makes the experience pleasurable for the woman or others [not that i'm bi-sexual], i feel great. of course, i want some delites, but giving makes me feel great; different from receiving, but great nonetheless.

from women i've talked w/ who've had threesomes or moresomes, it was : a) the guys want to please her - making her feel attractive/sexy, b) she gets as many orgasms as she can handle, and c) the satisfaction that she outlasted them all. that's pretty powerful, in my opinion.

Oh, I'm so jealous that you had an awesome 3some experience. I tried 3some once years and years ago with 2 guy friends who were not my boyfriends...very similar to your situation...but it was 'so-so'. I haven't been interested since.
==> pmd: samantha, sorry it wasnt so awesome or deliteful of an experience as you hoped it might have been.
but at the minimum, i imagine it helped you know what you like and dont like about having sex w/ two males. not many women can say that!

But back to the GB, I can understand maybe the lady likes a lot of attention from a lot of guys and she's maybe a submissive type? But...mechanically and physically, wouldn't it hurt, sore, and kinda boring after a while..especially if there are a lot of guys (10 for example) like the other GB post mentioned?
I can watch a lot of weird things and enjoy...but to experience it? Perhaps not! Originally Posted by samantha thom

i've never met a woman who was focus of a large gang bang or train [or a homo- or bi-sexual guy for that matter], so i have no idea what she/he wanted.
but it could be that she wanted attentions, that she wanted to feel used, that her master has told her she has to do this, that she just likes a cock in her mouth, pussy, and ass. who knows. a gazillian reasons.

i only know a woman who was w/ three guys. she wanted it cos she loved sex and wanted a guy in mouth/pussy/ass at the same time. she couldnt get enough - she wore them out [one of them was me]!

i just know that if i were a woman, i wouldnt want to go from having sex w/ one or two to having sex w/ 10 guys all in one step. i'd work my way up to it. that's where i'd think there's high probably of pain and injury.

... Personally I don't get the whole humiliation aspect of the gang bang, much less the whole cum bucket approach to sex. ... Sex is performance art at it's finest, best painted by lovers or those who pretend to be such, not a public wank and DNA dump. ... Originally Posted by phildo

i understand why some women want to be humiliated - it is a kind of attention.
"If it weren't for bad love I'ld have no love at all." may not be the best but it is a form.

sex can be most anything any two or three or four or more people want it to be.
one may not like or even "approve" of this kind or that kind of sex, but it's still sex.

...I'm intrigued by it, but would never do it. Would open myself up to humiliation, which happens anyway when it's just me and a provider. Originally Posted by hd

i figured i'd read that cliche in this thread.

it is amazing, though, what can happen when one opens themself to new experiences.
sometimes it happens as one might expect.
but sometimes it's an thrilling, deliteful, or even life changing experience.

i know that my view on sex sure has changed since 1997!!!

pmd, I did do a mfm before and though it was fun, but it was still lacking for me, so that's why the GB no doubt has no appeal for me. But the satifaction of the female enjoying herself was worth it for me. After all, a mfm is all about her!

...As far as the porn goes, I do not enjoy the domination, degradation, even misogyny, that typifies a lot of gangbangs. I look for scenes where the woman enjoys the experience, or views it as a challenge or a test of her boundaries. It's one thing for a woman to do it because she views herself as a worthless slut, good for nothing except being used as a semen depository for countless men; it's a whole 'nuther thing when a woman does it out of a sense of desire or adventure.

I marvel that there are women who will do such things, who are that uninhibited and sexual, and I remain incredulous, when I think about it, that so many will do so and have their activities recorded for posterity and made commercially available. I've never known anyone like that, Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

i agree w/ not being into the whole domination/degradation scene. but the ones i've seen have mostly been in D/s or S/M situations where she still signed up for it. i've watched some pretty "sick" abuse of women, but we dont know what happened before or after the videoing. in one D/s series, they talked w/ the women afterwards and they all enjoyed the pain and pleasure. again, who knows how "true" their statements were, but they seemed OK if not cool w/ it. if the woman has no control over the situation, that is flat out abuse and the abusers deserve to be charged w/ sexual abuse, kidnapping, etc.

i wish i could find it, but there was one bbbj video i saw recently where a woman walked around an area and yelled out "free blowjobs!!!" and a bunch of guys [of all ages, shapes, and races] followed her into a building where she sucked off each and every one of them, about 15 or so. talk about power!!! and i'm sure she at least got some money for making that video. i hope she got a lot for her skills and her chutzpah!!!

i'm amazed at the women in commercial porn - for their skills. however, i'm more amazed at the women in amateur porn - for letting their guys video it and post it to the world. i would think in those cases, they have less control than the commercial porn stars.

in any case, as long as they arent getting hurt or abused, it's their boat.

From my viewpoint, a Gang Bang has nothing to do with Domination and Submission unless the lady is just chained up to a bed waiting for a line of horny cocks to just knock the bottom of her va-jay-jay out. Now that is what I call a train!

For me, it's all about the instant availability of hard and horny cocks that I can take when I'm insatiably horny and sexually adventurous.

From having situations of "one on one" sex and not having the guy get it up hard enough to fuck me, I lay there, longing to be in a room surrounded by horny guys to where I can just pick and choose my next plaything!

from women i've talked w/ who've had threesomes or moresomes, it was : a) the guys want to please her - making her feel attractive/sexy, b) she gets as many orgasms as she can handle, and c) the satisfaction that she outlasted them all. that's pretty powerful, in my opinion.
Originally Posted by pmdelites

That's what I was so surprised about. I thought for sure there would be a humiliation factor to get past/over but it wasn't like that at all. I can see the appeal in it from a female perspective in that sense. But ya the dna dump, submissive, humiliation thing is definitely not something that would fire me up about it.

This is a really interesting thread, Samantha. Good job!

...For me, it's all about the instant availability of hard and horny cocks that I can take when I'm insatiably horny and sexually adventurous.
...
===> pmd: primae facie evidence that multiple sex partners is good for a woman :^)

From having situations of "one on one" sex and not having the guy get it up hard enough to fuck me, I lay there, longing to be in a room surrounded by horny guys to where I can just pick and choose my next plaything! Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

kind of like sex-me-up buffet!!!

brown sugar baby, great for you!!!!!!!!!!



p.s., sorry i dissapointed you. lil delites aint what he used to be :^)