Advice....

Would y'all give your place of employment to see a certain provider if you did not have any references ? I am really opposed to doing so, yet I'm picky and the providers I like are doing a fine job of covering there end. I wanna leave the amp scene because that's just as bad if not worse than giving up your place of employment. Yet it seems that's all I'm really left with. Advice from all angles please.

Moved to co-ed to get "advice from all angles"...


Just sign up for P411...my .02

If you do not feel comfortable giving your employment info, do not (I will not), there are providers that will see newbees without having to give that or any other personal info. Visit a couple of them that are reputable, use them as references and that is that.

Just sign up for P411...my .02 Originally Posted by DickEmDown

True dat!! Once you see someone, they can give you an OK.

No one has yet to explain this employment thing. If LE REALLY want u.. they can easily form together all the information and verification needed for a fake job.. not to mention MANY have 2nd jobs anyways. On top of that... the Craigs List killer (according to the movie).. had a job! Employment verification doesnt do much except prove they may be able to afford pussy.

No offense.. but Ill just wait for him to have respectable references that I know are not behind bars or a rotting corpse in a hotel room. I think if i were a hobbyist.. I wouldnt give out my employment info to a provider.. especially since there are some crazies out there outting info on the guys. Plus when they call to verify...well... ive noticed a few girls that are a french fry short of a happy meal..I cant see them putting enough words together to even sound professional.. rather i can see them admitted to screening for a fuck session... lol

P411 is the way to go. They will screen you and are very professional.. no worries of them getting hormonal and outting your information.

So with the P411, it takes the place of having reputable references ? I sure as hell can't have anyone calling my work. I know there are newbie friendly providers but they're just not what I'm looking for. The ones I had lined up screen better than the TSA does. Like Miss Lacy for example.

I'll look into it. Thanks for sharing.

So with the P411, it takes the place of having reputable references ? I sure as hell can't have anyone calling my work. I know there are newbie friendly providers but they're just not what I'm looking for. The ones I had lined up screen better than the TSA does. Like Miss Lacy for example.

I'll look into it. Thanks for sharing. Originally Posted by fire10

No.. for me u still need 2 okays from respectable ladies. Ladies for who are known not to give out okays just for points. Ladies who wont trade a good review for an okay. Ladies that dont screen.
Basically... if you see a lady who is known to screen well and only give out okays to those who earn them... plus looking and seeing their okays.. we can KNOW that they are not sitting behind bars or 6 feet under.. lol. So those 2 things are already answered.

I think that 411 verifies employment but they are very professional.. not sure exact screening but i have NEVER heard of any guy complaining or having negative results of their screening. It will def open doors for you. Plus it gives us information we need.. like your likes, preferences, health issues... etc. And a lot of providers dont post certain information like rates on here... but menu options and rates are all on 411... usually ALL questions are answered with just a view of their profile.

And many only post traveling ads on 411... like myself. Its a wise investment.

Also.. if you do get it... ALWAYS pm the girl through there.. never just give her your ID/Handle. You dont want to risk a pimp or crazy nut job getting ahold of that number and using it for their own advantage.

Yeah don't give job info. I don't know what chicks get out of it. Like what's said cops set up fake jobs all the time. P411 is the best way I have had a very popular chick that visits refuse to give me an ok even after I had reviewed her but its all part of the game. Of all of them that is the only on that was like that I never saw her anymore.

They will kick your ass off P411 for giving out fake okays. I except newbies and when a provider ask me for a reference I give it honestly. And give details letting her know that he did go all the way with me and all was well.

I do not give my name to ladies so how would I get references? I also am self-employed.

if that is a problem, I would move on. I rarely have had to.

I don't give any personal info and don't ask for any personal info.
This is a hobby/occupation and is to be enjoyed.
I am not applying for a loan, just an hour or 2 of her time.
I found newbie friendly girls and actually still see one of them on a regular basis.
However I do understand wanting to be careful in this hobby.
My advise, just look around there is some very fine young ladies who are newbie friendly

I'm single, don't give a rats ass, I see who I want, when I want. What DED, and DM said is the way to go, it's painless...