Dangling the proverbial carrot in front of your nose saying "maybe next time".

Dangling the proverbial carrot in front of your nose saying "maybe next time". Does it ever happen? Some services important to guys is no cover for BJ. For some MSOG and for some CIM. Then there is Greek. Even picture taking. Video? Some ladies are not comfortable offering these services. But they respond by saying NOT on the first meeting and it's YMMV (Your Mileage May Vary, Depends On You... The Hobbyists)


GUYS:

So the question is do you see her again to secure the desired menu items? If you did secure an additional session or sessions did her menu expand to include the desired item(s) you originally wanted?

Or do you move on to look for a provider that offers the items you want?


Ladies

Are there instances where you have told a client NO not on the first meeting perhaps next time? Did they rescheduled and if so did they get the desired expanded menu item(s)?

Do you offer services to "regulars" not normally offered to new clients?

As I'm paying I never settle. You either offer what I like or you don't. If you don't like what I like then it wouldn't be enjoyable for either of us even if you agreed to it.
I would never expect to be able to get away with saying "I'm uncomfortable with paying $300 for an hour session so the first time I'll pay $250 of the donation but when we book again maybe next time I'll pay 100% of what you want. "

The beauty of hobbying is that there is no shortage of options for everybody.

As I'm paying I never settle. You either offer what I like or you don't. If you don't like what I like then it wouldn't be enjoyable for either of us even if you agreed to it.
I would never expect to be able to get away with saying "I'm uncomfortable with paying $300 for an hour session so the first time I'll pay $250 of the donation but when we book again maybe next time I'll pay 100% of what you want. "

The beauty of hobbying is that there is no shortage of options for everybody. Originally Posted by Windinhishair

If I don't get in the first session, with very few exceptions, I don't see the lady again.

In my humble opinion, when they say, I will do .... next time (be BBBJ, Greek whatever), it means that next time they will most probably say the same.

Now there is ab even worse situation. That is when they give you a good set of activities and the next time they say "Oh that was a one time deal... I am not comfortable with it... however if you tip me extra I would do it again.

A lady just want to see a dick before promising to shove it in her butt. The extra is for the fasting/prep.

Guys don't realize all that goes into prep for Greek. Nothing more exciting than doing an enema during your day especially the part where you have to buy it in the store from the old lady giving you weird looks like whats wrong with you ass lol
yo its not naturally clean like that haha and I have to take pain meds to deal with the after effect and also need a bit of wine before and hope to god im not gassy the rest of the day lol Nothing sexier than a girl farting during an appt

As I'm paying I never settle. You either offer what I like or you don't. If you don't like what I like then it wouldn't be enjoyable for either of us even if you agreed to it.
I would never expect to be able to get away with saying "I'm uncomfortable with paying $300 for an hour session so the first time I'll pay $250 of the donation but when we book again maybe next time I'll pay 100% of what you want. "

The beauty of hobbying is that there is no shortage of options for everybody. Originally Posted by Windinhishair

I have actually had guys say they won't pay my full rate for the first visit and I won't take anything less than advertised rate unless I'm running a special that week. There is no guarantee that there will be a second visit, or it may be months down the road.
SL asked if repeat clientele gets anything special - I offer a discount to regulars who see me at least once a month. But service is the same except that I may leave the door unlocked and let them walk into my apartment instead of having to knock when we schedule.

If I don't get in the first session, with very few exceptions, I don't see the lady again.

In my humble opinion, when they say, I will do .... next time (be BBBJ, Greek whatever), it means that next time they will most probably say the same. Originally Posted by foxnews69

Greek can be iffy which others have explained. If I'm not asked ahead of time, I don't prep for Greek. I only prep when it is requested. Just because I'm not prepped doesn't mean that I turn it down, unless stomach issues that day. But the guy will be forewarned that I am not cleaned out and the choice is theirs. I have had stomach issues a few times and told the guy no on that visit.

Guys don't realize all that goes into prep for Greek. Nothing more exciting than doing an enema during your day especially the part where you have to buy it in the store from the old lady giving you weird looks like whats wrong with you ass lol
yo its not naturally clean like that haha and I have to take pain meds to deal with the after effect and also need a bit of wine before and hope to god im not gassy the rest of the day lol Nothing sexier than a girl farting during an appt Originally Posted by LexieMarie

I'm sorry that you have to take pain meds to deal with the after effect. This should never be the case. Pain from it could cause issues down the road.
BTW, you can buy enemas on Amazon or they have a shower attachment on there or at Dreamers if you are embarrassed buying it at the store.

The beauty of hobbying is that there is no shortage of options for everybody. Originally Posted by Windinhishair

Too many providers fail to understand that principle. It's displayed when they reach back out after you decline to see them, still unwilling to provide what you were looking for and unable to understand your lack of interest.

Guys don't realize all that goes into prep for Greek. Nothing more exciting than doing an enema during your day especially the part where you have to buy it in the store from the old lady giving you weird looks like whats wrong with you ass lol
yo its not naturally clean like that haha and I have to take pain meds to deal with the after effect and also need a bit of wine before and hope to god im not gassy the rest of the day lol Nothing sexier than a girl farting during an appt Originally Posted by LexieMarie

LMAO!

Great explanation!

Tammie I was just putting a humorous spin on the subject love but appreciate your advice

Damn, I like me some greek.once in awhile but talking about it. It don't sound appetizing. Just saying! !!!

Damn, I like me some greek.once in awhile but talking about it. It don't sound appetizing. Just saying! !!! Originally Posted by Passion2015

Exactly my point some of you just tend to think of the fun part lol

Just be grateful you are the giver and not the receiver Greek can be fun even or me I just have to be in a kinky mood that day and get excited about it (thats where porn with hot guys an pretty girls comes in handy lol)

Let me just say I am grateful to horny men and their way of thinking For the most part you guys make me laugh and we have good times together I am happy to be a woman also because I can have multiple orgasms and dont have to stop myself from cumming too soon ever lol

Very true, it is great being a multi-orgasmic female.

Nothing sexier than a girl farting during an appt Originally Posted by LexieMarie

That's one of those things they promise on future visits I guess?!